I haven't written on here b/c we are going to court in the summer for full custody of the kids After the courts handed them back to BM, we decided to just keep to ourselves about it. Well BM just can't stop herself from stirring the pot. She has to check in with CPS once a week. DH and I came back to our home state in March. BM took the girls to the CPS worker later that week and got them to say that DH abused them. Apparently, he even went so far as to tackle SD11. Also, she is claiming we left them alone in the house for hours on end. The girls lied and backed this story up. Now, DCFS is encouraging BM to try and get a restraining order to keep DH away from the kids.

BM decides this is a golden opportunity. She wants to move the SDs to Texas. She can't do that with a pending custody case so DH gets a call from her last night. She tells him about the abuse allegations and threatens to go to the police. But if he lets her move to Texas, "this will all go away. It can be a fresh start for us all." Gag me. I am so angry. I don't even want the SDs here anymore. I am trying to stop being angry b/c I know she put them up to it, but it is still hard. We have never been mean to his kids. And, it is hurtful that they would say it. My DH is heartbroken. We are still going to keep fighting. We told her to take her blackmail and shove it. But, I would be lying if I said I wasn't worried.