if you're offended by curse words, please don't read my blog, I tend to curse alot when I get mad! and I've been mad alot lately

The shit started flying last night between my husband and the Leech!

Don’t even know how the argument evolved, I was in the dining sitting at the table with my mother, and those two were in the kitchen discussion turned to argument, which moved outside and I could hear my husband yelling and dropping ‘f-bombs’ from where I sat, even though they were outside 50 feet or so from the house
My mother said “did he finally get tired of being treated like a door-mat?”
I think so, Mom!

I asked if he was ok when he came back in… he said he was fine, got a drink of water, gained his composure and we continued our chat with Mom

(who looks great by the way after the facelift)

Later last night, I said “so do you want to tell me what the fight was about?”
Well, Leech thinks he can move into Uncles house NOW
Of course, the child that he is, he wants what he wants NOW
Husband told him, you can’t go NOW, I havent’ discussed this with Uncle or the rest of my family… you haven’t given me rent here, why would I think you’re going to give me rent there

I want some assurances before I let you move into Uncles house till it sells, and that’s ONLY IF Uncle says it’s okay

Well, the big baby that he is, didn’t LIKE hearing that so he had a temper tantrum and started fighting with my husband
My husband pointed out that even though he was offered health insurance, he never took his employer up on the offer (he works for a small business, I thought he HAD the health insurance) he’s got no health insurance, he’s got no short term disability insurance he’s got no LTD insurance… he has nothing more than a paycheck every other week
Husband says, “if you break your leg and can’t pay me rent, I am putting you out on the street and your credit will be ruined from medical bills, so you’ll never find another place to live”
Leech says “medical bills don’t affect your credit, I can walk away from medical bills and not have to worry about it”
NICE! Husband says “I don’t know who you are, because I didn’t raise you to be so irresponsible, I’ve always done what I could to set the example for you to follow, by taking care of all of MY responsibilites, where did you ever learn that you can just shirk yours?? I’m so disappointed in your behavior”
You will give me $200 out of your next paycheck and each and every single paycheck after that, or you will be out of here!

:jawdrop:
(I did a little happy dance in my mind)

So Leech started packing up his stuff… he doesn’t know where he’s going, but he’s packing alright (why? Is he going to just go because he will REFUSE to give $200 out of his paycheck toward rent?? )
I can only hope!!

Oh… so as a side note… I am not speaking to him, nor is he speaking to me
He told my husband yesterday “YOU will get to see YOUR grandson tonight”
Then when G/F’s class got cancelled and my husband asked why he didn’t have the baby, Leech answered, well since she doesn’t have class, I figured I had other things to do…
(um like get drunk… I found six of those HUGE cans of beer in the recycle bin this morning… nice way to be saving money)
I got the whole YOU and YOUR grandson thing… meaning I don’t get to see the baby and the baby is NOT MY grandson

(fuck you Matt, you’re a selfish, juvenile, spoiled, immature, disturbed, lazy, good for NOTHING asshole!)