SK's, BM and Facebook
Our oldest SD(12) has a Facebook account under the conditions that we have her password and she is fully aware that we check it periodically to make sure she is using it appropriately. BM is totally aware of this also.
So DH and I log in last night to check out her activity and see that BM posted the following to her wall which is, of course totally viewable by SD:
A Daddy isn't defined as the man who makes the child, but rather the man who extends his hands and time to help with the child's raising and his heart to love the child through anything! Blood doesn't always make you a Daddy. Being a Daddy comes from the heart..any fool can make a baby, it takes a make to raise a child.
This pisses me off for obvious reasons. I do not think its appropriate for her to be posting this "bash Daddy" stuff for SD to see. Should DH address this with BM?
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If I were the father, I'd
If I were the father, I'd login as myself and post right behind her, "That's very sweet, thank you!"
I'd copy it and paste it in a
I'd copy it and paste it in a email and send it to myself for safe keeping as record of pas. Be sure to note that it showed up on SD's FB page and that you have access to said FB page for safety reasons AND that BM is aware of this.
She is doing you a favor by
She is doing you a favor by playing a village idiot.
Oh, and I wouldn't let BM know I was keeping notes. If SD see's it, maybe you could have a discussion about what she thinks of the comment. Then note that too.
Take a screen shot of the
Take a screen shot of the posting. Also, print a copy of the posting off. You can use both the screenshot and print in court.
I would go in to her settings
I would go in to her settings and block BM postings. Or maybe even delete her as a friend! And when SD asks about it, tell her BM was being inappropriate. And when the b1tch says something about it have dh set her straight, in a nice "court friendly" email!
Thanks for the advice
Thanks for the advice everyone! I printed off the page and will save it for now. Its probably better to have proof that it has happened more than once before we confront her with it. I did delete the post from SD's wall after I printed it. Thanks again!