Police has been called again on SD
It has been about a month this the last time the police was called and SD, age 17, was placed in a mental hospital. She was at school she threw a laptop across and pushed/hit a teacher. Dh picked her up and school. She threatened to beat everyone's a$$ and she tried to jump out of a moving car with DH. She turned on DH and he called the police. Today, the school called the police because she through a chair. I am sure it is back to the hospital for her again. SD isn't speaking to DH because he called the police on her.
Last night, BM text DH and told him that SD stole her Credit card AGAIN. Sd has stolen BM's credit card multiple times. She has been doing it for years. Bm threatens to press charges but never does. SD has a job now as a waitress at a local restaurant. She has access to customers credit cards. It is scary but DH and BM think it will be just fine. After all, SD isn't "really" stealing money (eyeroll). Bm told DH that she is getting fed up with SD. It will be interesting to see what happens to SD now. Is she going back to the mental hospital for a week or will she be going to another group home?
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How do they think she isn't
How do they think she isn't really stealing money? Why does BM keep leaving her card where sd has access? I assure you, customers of a restaurant that get their card/information stolen WILL think she is stealing money!
At a certain point, I can only assume she is going to get assault charges - if I was a teacher I most certainly would not accept physical abuse (nor should they!).
What is going to happen if BM says your husband has to take custody?
They think it isn't stealing
because it is BM's money. She would NEVER steal from someone else.
SD can't live here. My BS lives her full time and I work from home. I am not going to endanger my BS or lose my job because of her behavior. Dh already knows that I will not approve and he understands.
He is free to move out and live with her somewhere else. He can't afford to do that.
Wow. This girl truly is a hot
Wow. This girl truly is a hot mess. It sounds like she has mental health issues combined with permissive parenting - bad combination. At some point someone will file charges against her in school or elsewhere.
I agree
It is very hard to determine exactly what is just "bad parenting" or mental issues.
She sounds to me like she
She sounds to me like she might have Borderline Personality Disorder.
Wow... she really need to be
Wow... she really need to be in a group home.
Unfortunately there is something major
Wrong with SD. She can not control herself. She needs major mental health help, and most likely medication.
No reason to dump on a person with mental problems. No way to make any sense, on what she is doing. It’s part of the disease. If someone has a heart problem, they get help with it, If someone has a mental problem, they also need help with it. You have to start with a person with an MD after there name, and go from there.
She is on meds
She has also been in and out of mental hospitals, group homes, counseling, psychiatrists and private schools. She does have mental issues but she also has the luxury of having a double dose of "bad parenting". I do understand it is hard to parent a child with mental issues but SD has complete control at BM's house. I have been in SD's life since she was 6 years old. She was in control at BM's house at that time too.
How the heck did she manage
How the heck did she manage to get a job given she just got out of a mental health facility?
She had a job prior to going
She has been working for a few months now. BM told the manager about the rape and is using that as a reason for missing work. I am not so sure how understanding they are going to continue to be though.
I'm voting
on the "permissive parenting" side. This is what happens when bio parents fail to parent. Once in a grrrreeeeaaaaatttt while there will be parents who are doing all they can and the kid is still a "bad seed" but this is rare. Most of this is due to befriending your kid and not parenting.
Ohhhh myyyyy Sorry
Ohhhh myyyyy
Sorry