.....and shit just got real
Just got this text message from SD19!
" You are probably the rudest, most insolent human I've ever encountered in my life. Maybe you should worry a little bashing me to my grandmother and take a little more time soul searching. Literally you are a replication of a mean girl in high school. I didn't come down here to please you, I came down here to work and see my family. So if you could keep my name our of your blabbering mouth it would be much appreciated. Act your age, it'll look great on you. And grandma said nothing about it, I just happened to see it"
WTF???? So I go back to my text messages between MIL and I because I'm guessing when she says she "saw" it that means she has MILs phone and saw text messages???? The only two I can find that even mentioned this little bitch are one where MIL was talking about taking SD and SS18 out for ice cream and she was worried about BS7 going and I told her not to worry about it that one or both of skids would probably flake out and not go and that BS7 could just get ice cream a different time. And then Saturday when MIL and I were texting back and forth about needing the truck or not for SD I said "Love how she's off at BM1 while everyone else is scrambling around dealing with her nonsense. ugh" That is it ladies!! It's not like I called her a lying manipulative little bitch or something awful?? Good Lort, if she ever saw the messages between me and Aunt J, she would flip a gasket!
At any rate, she messaged me this on FB and then promptly blocked me before I could respond. But the little bitch forgets that I have her cell phone number because she called me once by mistake when she first came, pretty sure I also have her email but I really don't think I want to respond to her in writing, because she'll just use whatever I send against me.
Done with this bitch. I hope I never see her again. Just tried calling DH to tell him but he didn't answer. Can't wait to see what he says.
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I would be done too.
I would be done too. Absolutely no reason for you to continue to deal with her drama and insults.
Ugh I just hate to let her
Ugh I just hate to let her get the last word and feel all smug with herself. Maybe I should just text her something passive aggressive like "Bless your heart" or send her this https://www.google.com/search?q=buh+bye+now&safe=strict&rls=com.microsof...
She's so precious. If she
She's so precious. If she only knew that her own dad didn't even want to be there to say good-bye to her.
Why he's going to continue to give her $150.00 a month is beyond me.
Can you imagine if she'd
Can you imagine if she'd actually read the truth? I'm glad you can be done.
"I'm not sure what you're
"I'm not sure what you're talking about... the only thing I can think is that I expressed frustration with having to deal with the issues you created for your dad and me about moving your stuff... but if that makes me a high school mean girl, so be it. You might want to try being a daughter to your dad more often than when you need money - he didn't even want to be around to say goodbye. Speaking of which... a lot of the money sent your way in the form of car, gifts etc, has come from me..so you can say goodbye to that, too."
or
"The truth hurts, doesn't it. You got what you wanted... I'm out - that means my money's out, too. Enjoy college."
or
"mkay"
Ignore her. Stand in the
Ignore her. Stand in the middle of your now quiet home and do a happy dance. She's gone and she cut the bridge ropes and burned them.
SD who?
pffft ignore it DaizyD, safe
pffft ignore it DaizyD, safe that message for life, you will need it in the future.
keep it as reminder never to engage again or help with anything, not even when DH asks you, you smile and say, let me refresh your mind Hon and show the message again to him.
This is what I'm doing, after the huge blow up with Aergia, I cancelled the flat in the city, she would've stayed there next year, SO asked me about it again and I simply smiled and said NO... not helping, he said I'm helping him I laughed and said NO not it's helping you helping your daughter... not happening...
"Very classy of you snooping
"Very classy of you snooping on grandmas phone".
In reality though don't reply. She is a biatch. Enjoy your life
Geez is this the summer of
Geez is this the summer of girl skids sending nasty messages to their SMs????
So what does she do, read MIL's text messages? Do you think MIL told her some of the things you have said or the way you feel about SD?
She blocked you... so there is really no good way of responding back so I'd just leave it be. I know... I know... but really... do you need to defend yourself against her? Do you think it's worth the possible back and forth? Will it change anything?
She will probably end up unblocking you to see if you respond. That is what YSD did to me on IG after her and I went back and forth a little bit.
She's just pissed because things didn't turn out how she thought they would, she can probably tell you don't give 2 f*cks about her, her dad has caught on to her nasty behavior so she is taking that out on you.
Instead of trying to talk to you to clear the air, make amends, try to work through the problem instead she sends you a message trying to insult you.
How will your DH react to the message?
MIL just called to apologize
MIL just called to apologize because apparently SD told her that she read her messages and that she sent me that message. MIL said that the other day when she called DH about using the truck, SD was asking to read the messages actually wanted MIL to screen shot the conversation and send it to her. MIL told her no and that they had talked on the phone anyway. (which they had, I heard DH talking to her) MIL said today, when they were in the car that she got 2 phone calls from some credit card place and was complaining that she wished she knew how to block them and that SD told her to give her the phone and she would do it. I guess that is when she snooped. And she was definitely snooping because I just went and looked at convo between me and MIL a there were NINE messages back and forth AFTER that one.. so the little bitch was just looking for drama.
Whatever, I didn't say anything awful, so I'm not sure why she got so bent out of shape over me saying what I said. MIL said it's because she's apparently paranoid about people talking about her. I said well, if she didn't act like an idiot then people wouldn't have anything to talk about right? Sociopath much??
Too bad you couldn't respond
Too bad you couldn't respond with "Who are you??". }:)
Let it go, Daizy. She's not worth it.
Sorry DaizyDukes Your
Sorry DaizyDukes
Your experience is exactly why we do NOT text. I /we do not care if this is how kids communicate now a days.
I can not begin to imagine the hate that would have been spewed to my dh and I IF we gave skids our cells. Actually not a true statement, we know how they would have treated us because of how they treated US inside our home and outside our home AND social media. Same for emails from BM....which we had to block her from.
NO thanks.
Again Sorry Daizy---you may want to block her from your cell. I would.
We don't care if it's the
We don't care if it's the norm these days, either, SD does not even know our cell phone numbers (we still have a land line). And, we don't do social media and SD knows it.
Got something to say? SAY it.
I was thinking something
I was thinking something along the lines of " maybe those who snoop through other people's cell phones and ask for screen shots are the ones who need to "grow up". Have a nice day!
I don't know the background
I don't know the background here, but a 19-year old sending me an outright shitty text message would be the perfect reason to cut her off financially and bar her from my home until she grows up and apologizes.
Don't respond to her, that's what she wants. Quit giving her free rent in your headspace. Go out and have a nice dinner/evening with DH instead.
Just talked to DH and he just
Just talked to DH and he just basically rolled his eyes (over the phone) and said whatever.. she's gone, bye bye. He agreed I didn't say anything bad and wondered why she got so bent out of shape. He also said she sent him a text and asked "why does Daizy hate me" WTF???????? Where does she get that over THAT text message???? and I don't understand why she is so upset that I might not like her because I sure as shit know she does NOT like me?! So again, I don't get what the big deal is here?
I told DH I was going to respond with the maybe people who snoop should grow up message and he said yeah do it. If I do respond it has to be good because only get one chance because then I'm going to block her.
ooooo maybe I should screen
ooooo maybe I should screen shot the sociopath "checklist" and just send that to her! LMAO.
No she would use that against me, but I can dream!!
She sounds like my adult OSD.
She sounds like my adult OSD.
Mine also adds profanity a lot. Not towards me, her dad. She wouldn't dare with her BM, BM assaulted her few times and routinely clocks her in the face. Guess OSD must like it. But my DH takes it. Sad.
She recently called him piece of sh..,t because he said he can't drive 2 and a half hours to see her (buy her stuff actually) after 14 hours night shift, he Said he needed to sleep few hours. That's what she said verbatim: I am single mom and don't sleep, you always talk about sleep, be a good father and don't use sleep as an excuse, f...you, piece of sh...t". Verbatim. DH was crying and shaking after.
Horrible people. Now I am thinking you should answer to her something. Have to think what.
It's so tempting to respond
It's so tempting to respond but don't. That will irritate her more.
Ugh, I know, I'm flip
Ugh, I know, I'm flip flopping back and forth between being a PA witch and saying "maybe one who is so paranoid that they have to snoop in people's phones and ask for screen shots should do some self reflecting as to why they are so paranoid. Have a nice day!" and being sickly sweet with something like "I'm so sorry that you saw something in MIL's phone that bothered you, I have no idea what that could have been but please accept my sincere apology and have a nice day!" and just not saying anything at all.
Probably just best to ignore the drama whore.
"I wish you a happy life,
"I wish you a happy life, far, far away from me."