When I first started dating my fiancé bm would always have her clevage exposed and I thought that was kind of odd. I am a natural "d" cup and do everything I can to not expose my size or clevage. I got soooo sick of it after 5 months that I went out and bought some summer blouses that were low-cut and really enhanced my figure. I went over to pick up the skids twice dressed like that and wouldn't you know it, she doesn't wear those kind of clothes around us anymore! I continue to wear only the best clothes from my closet whenever we drop off or pickup the skids. I wasn't trying to be like her, because I believe I have more class in one finger than she could ever have, but I guess I did play her game. Oh, I did forget to mention...it wasn't just her attire that bothered me, but also her flirting. I asked my fiancé if she always fitted with him and he said no, but agreed with me that she was on a several occasions. Now she doesn't and wouldn't dare!

Yes, bm are hilarious! In my case, my fiancé x wants him to stay single forever so she can manipulate him and abuse his good heart. She is pissed I'm with him because I'm handling all the fianicial aspects of our relationship. The days of calling him up and demanding money are gone! He pays ONLY what he is required to pay based on his agreement. That was my big F u to her. However, that has made our life somewhat better fiancially but has stirred up some crap with the her now wanting to manipulate and alienate the 2 girls. I think if you love your bf you should keep comments to yourself, he used poor judgement but don't burn him over the stake because of it. If you do you are at her level. Always act and conduct yourself with grace. Guys don't like hearing their x is whatever they are, cause they already know they made a mistake that's why they are an x.

Yes, bm are hilarious! In my case, my fiancé x wants him to stay single forever so she can manipulate him and abuse his good heart. She is pissed I'm with him because I'm handling all the fianicial aspects of our relationship. The days of calling him up and demanding money are gone! He pays ONLY what he is required to pay based on his agreement. That was my big F u to her. However, that has made our life somewhat better fiancially but has stirred up some crap with the her now wanting to manipulate and alienate the 2 girls. I think if you love your bf you should keep comments to yourself, he used poor judgement but don't burn him over the stake because of it. If you do you are at her level. Always act and conduct yourself with grace. Guys don't like hearing their x is whatever they are, cause they already know they made a mistake that's why they are an x.

Everyone else has an ugly BM? Why would your husband marry an ugly women? My husband's ex-wife is crazy as hell. But she isn't unattractive.

My husband's ex wife is actually very pretty. She has a beautiful smile! Honestly, my husband is way too superficial. He wouldn't have married an ugly woman.

Yeah, I will give credit where credit is due (shrugging shoulders) - BM has a pretty face/smile, I suppose. I don't think she's ugly physically - she's a little on the "big boned" side, though (trying to be politically correct & neutral). She also has this weird "pock face" (sp?) skin on her cheeks - like she had major acne when she was younger and the scars are still there?? I've never seen anything like it before.

More importantly, though, is that she's clearly ugly on the inside, which makes her unattractive overall as a person.

P.S. She really needs to stop covering herself with tattoos & piercings, wearing all black/goth look, black nailpolish, cleavage tops with necklace that "just so happens" to hang right between her cleavage (trying to look like a "witch") - because although she WANTS to be 21 again, unfortunately in reality she is going on 44 soon. Anything for attention, I suppose.

I just think the way she dresses/acts probably embarrasses her kids. Nice example to set, BM!! Great role model.