So just called, It is the best case scenario. The Judge told BM she needed to get rid of her anger and start putting her children first. He told her she had to take a parenting class and gave her a month to sign up for it.

He clarified the holiday's and told them that there would be no changes to the CO unless both people agreed to it, then it had to be put in writing and signed off by both of them.

She went into her crazy ranting about how he should take them when she wanted him to. The judge told her that truthfully SO didn't ever have to take them. But she had to have them available for SO to take at the times stated in the CO. She went nuts! It was great. She needed to hear that SO is not the baby sitter he is the dad, and he wasn't at her beacon call.

The sad thing is that she acts like he doesn't take them but when the judge looked at SO's calendars he saw that we have them about 175 days a year on the average. He looked at her and told her she was fortunate that obviously SO does want his kids. He does take them more than the minimums. He has never been late on his child support, and he was in court now so that he could spend more time
with them.

He also told her to stop bad mouthing SO to the kids and telling them their dad didn't want them when she would call and expect SO to drop everything to take them.

Also the "spitting" incident was brought up and the judge told SO if she threatens him or ever spits on him to call the police and
press charges. He told her that there was no excuse for that type of out of control behavior.

Wow! it was a win-win day. I am so happy and feel so blessed.

She must be absolutely "crazy" right now. She got nothing and was told she was not setting a good example as a mother.

I give TWO thumbs up for the Florida court system today!!!

Thank you all for the support, and listening to my rants.