I hope everyone had a great weekend. Mine did not start out like I had planned...

Friday DH worked 1/2 day. When he got home around 12, he and I went to the grocery store for some things. He took his list and I took mine and we were going to meet at the register. My shopping went by quicker than his so I just found him in the store. He was on the phone with his mom and his brother most of the time. I realized that I had forgotten something so I told him I would just meet up with him. I went through check out first and was waiting for him and I notice that he has a large amount of hamburger and buns. I said, "DH what are you buying all of that for? Are we having a cook out that I didn't know about?" (I was joking) He said, "Ummmmm well, I was on the phone with mom and she mentioned that they would like to come over, so yes we are." That really pissed me off. I said, "Soooo...you didn't think to maybe ask me if it was ok? Or even run it by me first?" It wasn't that I minded having a cook out...I minded that it was after 1 and he just decided without asking me first. Also we just moved in and the house is not exactly the way I would like it to be for guests to see. There are still things that don't have a place yet. We get home and I am rushing around to hide stuff and clean and try to make a cake. He said, "You should probably get in the shower." I looked at the clock. It was 2. I said, "What time are they coming? I was thinking around 4 or after." DH--"No they will be here at 3." WHAT IN THE FUCK??? You tell me at 1:00 that we are having a cook out that is starting at 3:00?!?!?! I wanted to kill him.
I was getting ready to get in the shower and his phone rings...it's Thunderfoot. I just hear him say, "We can discuss it when you get here." Great...what does SHE want? Of course she wants her stupid little BF to come over. NO! Just NO! I get in the shower. Everyone was there when I got out (all of them came empty handed too, of course...they have NO manners! I have never gone to a cook out empty handed) and DH said he needed to talk to me. Of course...he said, "Do you mind if Thunderfoot's BF comes over?" I thought he meant after the fireworks, which would have been late, so I said "No he can't." Instead of just saying ok he said, "So it's not ok if he comes over and eats and then rides with us to the fireworks?" I can see now that it doesn't matter what I say or want...the stupid BF is coming over because HEAVEN FORBID Thunderfoot not get her way. I just said to him "Whatever...but he is NOT STAYING THE NIGHT! If he comes over and rides with us, he better have a ride home. His ride better be here at 10:30, not leaving the house at 10:30. I am not having them pull any of their shit like they always do. AND if his ride isn't here by that time, tell him he better wear comfortable shoes because he will be walking."
So now we have to wait on stupid BF. The fireworks start at 6:00, it's now 5:00 everyone has eaten and he is still not there. FINALLY he shows up and we all ride to the fireworks show. That was a great time. We ditched his family and walked around and chatted with friends. When it's time to leave, we all pile in and head home. BFs ride is waiting in the driveway. (For once) I headed in the house to go to bed. It was around 10:45. I guess his parents thought they were going to come in and drink or watch TV or something. I gave them the "Thanks for the ride and good night" chat. And I am guessing I pissed them off because they didn't even bother to say goodbye to DH (he was in the bathroom). He came out and said, "WTH? Did you run my family off?" I told him that I didn't do anything I just told them thanks and good night. I mean wtf? it was almost 11:00...why the hell were they going to hang out with us????
Needless to say Friday SUCKED but the rest of the weekend was VERY nice and we had a great anniversary!