Well, we are going...me, H and kids including SD14 whose sister18 is graduating from HS. Gosh, I don't want to go, don't want to see BM, SD16, just want to bury my head in the sand. H won't go unless I go with him.

So last night my MIL calls and tells us she is excited about graduation (understandable) and so hopeful that we will go with SD18 and BM to dinner after graduation as this is a "reachable" moment instead of a "teachable" moment. This was a VM left on my phone. I just told H, you better go deal with your mother.

H dutifully calls mom and tells her we will be attending the graduation but that will be it. But they are free to have dinner with SD18 and BM if they so wish. We are going to throw a party for SD18 in June for graduation. Anybody got some dr*gs I can score?!!!!! I really dislike SD18 because she caused so much grief in my home. But I'm going to throw a barbecue for her nonetheless. Problem is I just can't fake it...if I don't like you, it's so abundantly clear.

For H's sake, I am going to do this and just drink my Patron through it all. lol....

H did ask me to please "give him some freedom" to be happy and proud of SD18 as she was in his life and not a devil spawn from 3 months to 15 yrs old. I told him to bite me, but in actually I know how moving and touching the graduation will be...yes, everyone will instantaneously forget that the little witch has stolen from us, is a drug addict, pops ecstacy, sleeps around and schemed with her mother to get me out of H's life....yes we'll all sit together and cheer her on, knowing the only reason she is graduating is b/c BM pulled strings at the school district she teaches and SD18 was "given" 70's across the board.

Ughhhhhh, somebody save me please!

Evilest Diva