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Court tomorrow - IF its not rescheduled again

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So court has been rescheduled again for tomorrow. Part of me is anxious to get it done and over with. Another part of me doesn't want to have to see him again for anything. He makes me nervous and sick to my stomach just to be in the same room with him.

We now have another minor issue to discuss tomorrow. I sent my request for my 2 weeks of summer time the last week in January. Along with request I also sent Ding Dong the latest of the medical bills with the total he needs to pay. On Friday I got a letter from him asking for the exact same days along with a note stating that those were the only 2 weeks that fit into his schedule. HIS schedule????? The man doesn't work!! I know he got my letter before he sent me his request because there was a check in the letter for the medical bills.

So, since I sent him my request first wouldn't I get my dates first? I try to be the bigger person, but I chose those dates so the girls could go to church camp and softball camp. Those were the two things the girls said they definitely wanted to do so I used my time to make that happen. Will the world come to an end if they can't do those activities? No, but I get so tired of Ding Dong deliberately doing things like this just to get under my skin.

I will try to update tomorrow unless things just go way bad, then I'll have to cry awhile and hide under my rock for awhile.

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Ex4life's picture

Thank you for your support. It means a lot. You are right, its all about control. Even the reason we are going to court in the first place is because no court order is going to tell him what to do. I try very hard to not let him know he gets to me. I also tend to bring my support system with me, which are all people he just hates. Wink