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Flying.Purple.Step.Monster's picture

We don't have a master bath in our bedroom but our bedroom and BS3 have bedrooms upstairs and SS12 and SD11 have bedrooms downstairs. There is an upstairs bathroom and a downstairs bathroom. Now.. I can understand that if you are upstairs watching tv you will use the upstairs bathroom... but they insist on showering in the upstairs bathroom. And they keep making up excuses as to why... the last one was that there was a spider down there. Well kill it! The upstairs bathroom gets spiders sometime too!

And then they hang their dirty towels over the top of our towels. (guess it's better than on the floor) but SD12 has gotten ringworm twice because she is so dirty and doesn't shower.. I don't want her towel on top of mine!!! So everytime they do that I have to throw all of the towels into the laundry.

Plus SS12 pisses all over the place! If it's so damn hard to aim with that thing then SIT DOWN!! I refuse to clean the downstairs bathroom and DH makes them clean it.

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lostbroken's picture

Oh My, I am sorry you are going through this. I have to say I can relate, I have 2 bathrooms in my house, and the 2nd bath that is on the top floor is where my 3 skid's and my BS use. My skid's do not clean anything; they leave their towels, clothes, toiletries, and more all over the floor. I use to clean up after them. Now I do not. I told DH to do it....I can def related with the whole TP thing; these skids go through a roll a day at least. How the hell does that happen? They are not clean people so I have no idea what they are wiping, LOL .I actually tell my BS to come down and use my bathroom because the last time my skid's were at my house the SD15 put a dirty sanitary pad on the wall behind the door. I nearly flipped, and DH just said “oh well, she’s a kid, and been threw a lot" Oh hell no! That is no excuse. These skids’s need to start having consequences for all their actions. Being that your SD is 21, for god sakes she needs to clean up after herself and YES, but her own freaking TP. what a leech, LOL. I have just had it with my skid's. So I can understand where you are coming from regarding the cleanliness of the bathroom. I wish you the very best of luck! And hope you have a great stress free weekend

Flying.Purple.Step.Monster's picture

Luckily the skids are at BMs parent's for the WHOLE MONTH!! of course that means we will have to deprogram them when they come back.

JingerVZ's picture

Oh hell no! I will not have the kids - and filthy ones at that!!- in my bathroom. No effing way!!

Tell the kids to use the bathroom downstairs and only the downstairs bathroom. Tell them if they do use your bathroom you are going to punish the hell out of them- and do it!
No way I want those filthy kids in my space - for hygiene reasons only. Yuck!

justthegirlfriend13's picture

THIS! I-m so happy

It may be his kids, but its partly your house and no way in hell would I allow DH or skids to dictate what happens or doesn't happen in my house. Scare the shit out of them! LOL
If DH won't do it, then tell them point blank that they are NOT to step foot into your bathroom or else...whatever that is you can decide. If DH or the kids get mad....TOUGH! They'll get glad again and maybe learn once and for all.

These are the types of posts that really make me glad that I chose to never move in with my BF. It sure does limit our time together, but at least I don't have to put up with disgusting habits of the kids that their father refuses to do anything about.

SharkHugs's picture

Our family is cursed with only one bathroom. The skids can't aim. Pigpen goes in there for a half hour at a time every time he goes. I think he masturbates in there... gross! And there's always pee all over the floor and I think it's soaked into the baseboard by the toilet. Then Hover Round goes in there to take dumps and they smell exactly like someone shit in a can of pineapple afterward. They are f*cking nasty. Also, Pigpen leaves shit stains on his towels. You'd think he'd have learned to wipe properly as much time as he spends in the bathroom, but nope! I use the skids' towels to wipe the pee off the floor and then hang them back up for them to use. They have no idea because they're so used to smelling nasty they don't even notice. }:)

Tuff Noogies's picture

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

kathc's picture

You're going to have to declare upstairs bathroom OFF LIMITS. They can go downstairs to use the bathroom.

Jewals's picture

My YSS makes messes in the bathroom .. Poop on the toilet, pee everywhere ..
My Bs of course makes messes at least I'm teaching him...
My DH and the 2 SS refuse to dry off in the shower so they track water every where in the house and leave it for me to clean up ...
My SSs don't wipe their hind ends when they go #2 ..it's all so nasty!