with my OSD. It must be a miserable life to sit and think of ways to start drama especially, from another state. DD17 and OSD has not talked/texted since OSD's last attempt... (see last blog for backstory). So DD17 posted a story to her Facebook and her bff was on there with DD. OSD27 texted DD and asked was he DD's bf. DD replyed that he was her bff and he was gay. Now, the bff is like a part of our family. Has stayed the night countless times, DD has stayed at his house, been of a vacation with us, went to DD20 H.S and AIT graduation, etc. We know his BM, sisters and brother and he comes from a good background. He has even grown on DH lol. DD's reply apparently wasn't good enough so OSD texted DS and told him DD needs to watch who she hang around. Why did she text DS and not say that to DD, you may ask? Hell, we did too. Other then to try to start up drama, DS has been facetiming with the SD's as they are trying to develop an adult relationship. DS said OSD was asking how we were all doing and that he's been telling them how they (SD's) need to put their differences aside with their dad and call him.

DH was recently diagnosed with renal cancer, thank God it was seen early and at the top of his kidney so can just be cut out and he can still live a healthy life. DH only has 1 kidney, he donated the other to a friend when I was pregnant with DS. Anyway, so DS is like their little/big brother, always trying to talk sense into them and help them see a different perspective regarding their issues with DH and just in general. He facetimed me a couple days ago and asked me if they had called DH and told me about their discussion. So yesterday when we talked he asked DD why OSD text him saying she needs to watch who she hangs with? Of course, DD was pissed and wanted to know why she would text him and not her. And DS is stationed in Hawaii, so he doesn't even live with us. DS didn't know DD and SD had a discussion and was even confused after DD explained. 

He just said next time SD ask about any of us he would tell SD to call us. I told him how she's always been this way. At first she used to call me (before I disengaged) and wanted to know how everyone was doing and I would give her details on the kids and all lol. Then some of the things I would tell her would be twisted and turned by the time it got back to me or DH (from YSD usually or one of DH's relatives) or even told to her BM and used against me or DH. I told him to just watch what he tells her because she's looking for her drama supply and since I don't talk to her and DH is on punishment she's using DS to find out what's going on in our house. 

It's like everytime I get this girl out of my mind she pops back up again. Those little things she does just seems so big to me. And the fact that she uses my kids just adds fuel to the fire. I started to text her to never call my kids again but that's what she wants. I'm just glad that they are not easily manipulated. Rant over