I'm sooooooooooooooo pissed at DH right now....BM called asking about the Italy trip. Wanting to know how much we've saved blah blah blah. He told the cuntalotapus that the trip was covered. I really feel like it's a competition with those two and I'm sick of it. I realize that some times I fall into the trap of "just do it because she won't" but I'm over it. I forced BM to start putting money on SS13's lunch account. I didn't put any money on it for a month and just packed his lunch whenever he was with us. FINALLY the stupid b!tch paid for something. She put 20.00 on his account. It only took 5 years. I know it's stupid but I just can't do it anymore. I have my own kid to think about.

DH complains to me that BM takes all these trips and buys all these new clothes and even has a personal trainer now...well start making her responsible for her half of ss's expenses you know and not letting her off the hook.

Sort of A/B honor roll.

I'm mostly disenaged when it comes to SS and school. I still look at his grades though. He has all As and Bs and 1 C- He tells us Thursday that his mom is giving him a "treat" because he made A/B honor roll. I couldn't help myself.

ME: how so? 1. neither interims or report cards have come out for the third marking period. 2. you have a C- in science.
SS13: Oh mom doesn't count that class because I don't like my science teacher.
ME: You could have an A in that class if you'd... oh I don't know DO YOUR HOMEWORK
SS13: OH uh yea I'm going to turn that in.
ME: When you start working I wonder how your boss will feel about you turning in work late or missing deadlines.
SS13: *crickets*

*SIGH* How are we supposed combat the school crap.