Feeling defeated
So, we get a text from our Attorney saying we have an agreement but... of course there is a but.. BM has always purchased round trip fare. Apparently even though we purchased ours according to the CO we are automatically assumed to adjust our ticket.
My thought is why should we have to pay the fee for adjusting ticket dates when we bought ours according to the court order. Especially when our income doesn't have the wiggle room hers does. It almost feels like our Attorney is shutting us down and siding with her to an extent.
My Husband is on a plea of abeyance for driving with a prescribed medication and the officer was uninformed because it isn't even one that says you can't drive under. Well we did the plea and abeyance because it was the safest bet but because he is on it, our Attorney feels we can't push anything. I guess that means we just lay down and die with BM.
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You shouldn't have to pay the
You shouldn't have to pay the fee. If she's going to purchase the tickets she should be purchasing around the CO. I don't get why your attorney thinks you just have to lay down and take all that.
I would ask the attorney straight out.
And start shopping for a new one.
Her response was we don't
Her response was we don't really have leverage until the other stuff is taken care of.
I was kind of pushing back at her because we feel to an extent our Attorney hasn't handled this whole thing with our best interest. Once again, because I'm just the third party it is requested to wait and talk with my Husband because they think he will give them the answer they are looking for.
We said we didn't want to be responsible for another visitation because we didn't want the stress again if she pulls some other crap..
Attorney's response is: "The key for next time is better communication between the two of you. This time was a rare situation that I don't think you'll need to deal with again."
Okay when you are dealing with reasonable people and BM is more concerned with the girls seeing her family than their Father.
We talked about finding a
We talked about finding a future Attorney with any future endeavors just down to the wire and can't really switch at this point.