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BM has lost her freaking mind!! I am so fired up

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Submitted by HappyCow on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 8:17am

Today's gem of a text from BM:

We would like to get SD16 a car. White trash step dad would like to add 1000 to her savings and I have given her 300 toward it for Christmas and I plan to give another 300 towards it for her birthday. I think out of all of us white trash step dad is the best able to detect a good car since he has so much experience working on them. How much have you saved for her car? We can start looking now and have something picked out and paid for in time for her getting her license.

My notes. This B hasn't paid CS in two months. Does she really think we are going to hand over cash to her? Also, white trash step dad has the ability to pick out junkers that will just sit in their driveway.

DH response:

You are so full of crap it is amazing. Now for the car thing, I'm going to have to slightly disagree with your thinking that white trash step dad is the best expert to pick out her car. After the dozens of junkers that have died in your driveway and with SD16 saying that white trash step dad's picks he is unable to get them running. So Sd16, happy, and I myself will be picking out her car and it will be thoroughly inspected be a real licensed mechanic. I will let SD16 know that you guys will be helping out with this endeavor. Also, why would we hand over cash to you for her car?

When will you be sending the last two months of child support?

Thanks!

BM: (all mistakes are hers)

I’m not giving you any money towards a car you pick out. You are completely out of line believing you have financially responsible. I’m not discussing this further. I haven't seen Sd16 for several weeks. (side note: she was unable to see her because it was more important to go off for one of the weekends than to see her kid) You will have a check for this visit and the May one after the next visit. There is no reason to get emotional bitter and angry. Grow up. SD16 is the only loser in this argument.

SD16 already knows we are not paying towards a car you pick out.

DH:

If you want to take away SD16 Christmas present that you promised her you are just proving that you are an awful mother. If you are able to do that it is perfectly fine with me. You are a complete moron if you think white trash step dad has the ability to pick out a safe running car.

Ok, so I know that DH shouldn't have called her names but after almost 17 years of this B I don't blame him. I really wish I could properly express to all of us how laughable them thinking we are going to hand over any money to them!

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 8:43am

So she apparently has a difficult time coming up with $250.00 a month for support.. but zero problem coming up with $1600.00 between her and white trash daddy for a car for SD?? Let me guess she probably also smokes and always has enough money for cigs? but not for CS.

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Submitted by BethAnne on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 9:40am

She's probably hoping that dad will match the (imaginary) $1600 in cash, then they can buy a car for around a $1000 and pocket the $600 (maybe saying that the repairs will cost some money).

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Submitted by HappyCow on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 8:40am

I really don't care if she shows SD16 the texts at this point she is almost 17 and we have shielded her from most her her BM's bullshit for years. I am sure BM is blowing up her phone right now. DH and SD16 are going to have a sit down tonight to have everything out in the open. For years BM talked shit about us and we always took the high road. At 17 she can start seeing both sides for once. DH will have no issues showing her all the texts.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 8:40am

Soooo if white trash SF picks out car then BM will contribute AND she wants to know how much DH is contributing, but if DH picks out car then BM throws a little temper tantrum and contributes nothing?

Is your DH a pedophile, because this woman sounds like she is in the 3rd grade. :?

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Submitted by HappyCow on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 8:43am

According to DH she wasn't like this when they were married. :sick: How many of us have heard that BS line before.

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Submitted by HappyCow on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 9:03am

I agree with all of you about the maturity level going on in the texts. I think it was years of frustration coming out on DH's part. Not that it is an excuse and if it was me I probably would have called her more than just a moron.

The funny thing is we never expected BM to contribute anything towards the car. We have always known and planned on us buying her the car. It's us that is doing all of the running around and we are the ones that need SD16 to get a car. She is doing a medical internship next year during school so she really needs a car to leave to go to work, school, & practice. DH and I can't leave work during the day to run her to her internship.

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Thu, 05/07/2015 - 9:52am

Yeah BM used to poke DH until he would just blow up like this in text. She does it on purpose as I'm sure yours is too. Now BM can only email DH and he only responds between the hours of 5-7pm. This cut back a lot of the texting wars, the pointless conversations (that led to texting wars) and it gives DH time to sit down and collect his thought about whatever the email is about. I'd suggest you advise your husband to do the same, a judge will read these emails and think they're both nuts so he needs to stop setting himself up.