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DH got laid off...what will crazy witch do when she doesn't receive a check?

herewegoagain's picture

So, after so much heartache the last few years, we thought we were seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Nope. DH got laid off today. Nice, huh? His last check is in two weeks. Thankfully, I just started my contract work about 3 months ago and still have 3 months to go. In addition, today I spoke with my boss' boss, the guy who actually offered me the job and they will probably either extend my contract or try to convert me to permanent. With that said, I am not worried much about US as a family right now, but of course, then there is the CS for the...

17yr old IDIOT with a 1yr old, another baby on the way, the thug boyfriend who was caught with drugs just 2 months ago, and of course, the fact that the IDIOT is in 9th grade and already failed this year since she has missed about 60days of school this semester!

So what happens? Does anyone know if CS will be garnished from any package that the company could possibly give my husband? Honestly, we have been through hell and back and right now, I have to say that I am a bit smiling. Why? Because not once in the 12yrs DH and I have been together or in the 4 before we got together did he ever miss a CS payment, even when he was previously unemployed. You see, I PAID his CS last time he lost his job because I didn't want to make his kid/ex suffer...well, of course it will NOT under any circumstances happen this time. This time, if he has no job, she can sit on her ass waiting to collect the CS money. You see, she had no problem lying to the courts some years ago saying he was not paying so that she could get his wages garnished, which ended up costing us thousands in increased interest rates on credit cards due to ruined credit, etc, etc, etc...so now, I am just waiting...I think that at least that FIRST time she doesn't get a check, even if I have the money, I will NOT send her a freaking dime...I can't wait for that witch to call us screaming because she isn't getting her check. I mean, really, if she takes him to court at this point, she would look pretty darn ridiculous since we have proof she doesn't make the kid go to school, etc...hmmm

Could I possibly sit and smile and not feel bad about it after all the hell this witch has put us through? Sometimes I think there is Karma...and sometimes I wonder...but I have to say, that just 8 months short of the IDIOT turning 18 and BM possibly seeing her last check, it will be a rude awakening to not get her check on time...and since we live out of state, she can kiss my behind if she thinks that she'll be getting any of MY money this time around.

I might just have a freaking party and send her the pictures!!!

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AliceP's picture

He'll owe 8 months back CS and it'll take her til he get unemployment or a job and CS is notified to get it. lol You'll make her uncomfortable for awhile but you are so close to it being a non issue congrats!!!

AliceP's picture

He'll owe 8 months back CS and it'll take her til he get unemployment or a job and CS is notified to get it. lol You'll make her uncomfortable for awhile but you are so close to it being a non issue congrats!!!

Anon2009's picture

I have to wonder if BM doesn't make SD go to school because it'll mean more cs for her past SD's 18th birthday. I think kids often wind up as pawns in these situations, and your SD is BM's pawn.

TinyDancer's picture

Register with Custody Support in whatever state your in.
Make sure she gets whatever was agreed upon.

And YOU do not put out one single penny.

Let him, the state and her deal. Hope your in a state when CS ends at 18.

beyond pissed-off's picture

Usually it is 18 or until they finish highschool. I am worried that SS16 is going to be one of the "until finish highschool - which will probably be when he is 20 at this rate!

17 and in 9th grade? Ugh! And with a second baby on the way????? Holy crap! DH must be sooooo proud. And you must be ready to pull your hair out! Glad you are not paying CS yourself this time around!

Amazedstepmom's picture

I think that if a child that you are paying support for has a child they become an emancipated minor and the support obligation is voided. Play like an adult you don't get child support.
I know a coworker lost support for her 17 yo when the 17yo had a child.
I would check the laws in your state.

laurabunny's picture

Just a thought- we're going through the same thing right now, DH lost his job and is looking for something new. We filed for a child support modification... guess what? Ex was getting $800 a month, now she has to pay us $340 per month. Ha! It's the little things in life that make us happy. Smile

herewegoagain's picture

From what Texas says DH still has to pay for this idiot to keep making babies...nice to know everyone in the state is also paying for the idiot to continue making babies...pathetic...

OK, well, I have always felt that she will start going to school once she turns 18 and then Texas will sc#$%#$% DH over with more CS, but we'll see.

Honestly, as stressed as I am, I cannot wait for her to NOT get her first "check" lol Idiot. Plenty of times we have done without for you. Not this time around. Never again.

IDIOT BM should be waiting for a check between the 3rd-7th of February...hmmm...will be sitting at home smiling waiting for crazy witch to call! lol

laurabunny - GOOD FOR YOUR DH & YOU...I doubt the same thing would happen with us, as BM is such a loser...but enjoy your break!

PS - I will ONLY be smiling because she could not care less when we had no food to eat and she STOLE DHs money...payback is hell