I remember the years I was consumed with crazy witch...the time I spent thinking I was too skinny and then I was too fat...the stress of child support, the preggo 16yr old...

And then I got sick...very sick...I caught MRSA...I was in the hospital and almost lost my life...it took a couple of months to get back to normal. Then, around Christmas the MRSA reared it's ugly head again...after some antibiotics I developed a life threatening allergic reaction...I am still getting medical care...

Now, the worries of crazy seem unimoprtant. Being skinny or fat even less. I now have to constantly see the ugly huge scar on my leg...and wear enough hairspray so the nickel sized bald spot on my head is not noticed.

I now could care less about crazy witch or 16yr old baby mamma in 9th grade...much less about being skinny or fat...I have a constant reminder everyday when I look at myself of what really matters. What matters is taking care of ourselves! Not allowing others to interfere in our well-being by stressing out so much that our health suffers...my immune system was very weak from the stress, from not eating right because I couldn't think...and sometimes because I wanted to look better.

Please take a look at yourselves & your life...and know you must find peace and let your husbands deal with their own nightmares...do it for your bio-kids! But most of all, for YOU! We only live once...don't stress over the ex's & their kids...spend the time finding the peace that YOU deserve!