Top 10 list of the most jaw dropping things my ss14 ever did...
Just for fun. Please feel free to add your own.
1. Pretended to by psychotic for 4 months-reported that he was hearing voices to kill my ds, came up with a detailed plan to kill my ds. Was then hospitalized. Discharged from hospital and said later he made it all up to get attention and "It worked too!"
2. Has stolen my panties and bras approximately one hundred times. Starting at age 4 and continuing on up until 14.
3. Stole my dd15' underwear last year. Unforgiveable.
4. Pointed a very large butcher knife at my dd's neck and threatened to kill her because she was chewing with her mouth open back when they were 5.
5. Tied a rope around another child's neck at daycare and drug him around the room. Left bruises all around the kid's neck.
6. Kicked out of an inhome day care provider at age 4 because he held my ds (then 3) under water in a baby pool when she turned her back for a few seconds. (It was only a couple inches of water so he really had to be making an effort to hold his head down there face first).
7. Was growing a pot plant in bm's front yard (which is the size of a postage stamp in the middle of the city)when he was barely 13 years old.
8. Giving his 11 year old cousin his adhd meds telling him it was for headaches.
9. Wow-these are starting to bring me down-so I'll switch to some funnier ones. -Kept a dead fish in his bedroom for 3 days. Didnt realize it because his room always smelled heinous and kept door shut at all times. I just thought it was his own stink.
10. Continues to be a nightly bedwetter at age 14.5.
Thought this might be a funny list-but turned really into a more serious one. He's done some bad shit.
- hismineandours's blog
- Log in or register to post comments
Comments
(No subject)
:jawdrop:
WHAT?
WHAT?
Her SS is what... that list
Her SS is what... that list is "jawdropping"... no?
Your SS is a punk ass
Your SS is a punk ass psychopath in training. Of course I've told you this a gazillion times but I have to say it again.
Yes, I really do agree daizy.
Yes, I really do agree daizy. He is so the opposite of normal.
Seriously, I couldn't even
Seriously, I couldn't even type anything in response. My jaw was literally dropped like that... :jawdrop:
Is he in any kind of therapy?
I don't think anyone could even try to add to that list. I am pretty sure the worst thing my SS has done was last night in the middle of the night he took a mad shit and clogged up the toilet and left it. But he's 9... any one of my kids would do that!
No, he's not in any therapy.
No, he's not in any therapy. He is on meds-has been since he was 5. He's had therapy in the past. Lives with my inlaws now. They see nothing wrong with him-it's dh and I that are the crazy freaks and they are giving him a safe haven and parenting him in the proper way as dh and I apparently did not know how to do.
LOL! about the clogged toilets. I wish that was the worst of it.
Somehow that reminds me of
11. Often vomits after eating. Will stop and vomit anywhere he's at-on the sidewalk, in the car, at the table, in a restaurant. Then he laughs.
Also reminds me...
12. This kid has horrible horrible gas. Really, unlike nothing I've ever smelt in my life. He was getting off the bus one day and my poor ds who was like 6 at the time was behind him-ss farted and ds vomited as he came off the bus.
>>>>Lives with my inlaws now.
>>>>Lives with my inlaws now. They see nothing wrong with him-it's dh and I that are the crazy freaks and they are giving him a safe haven and parenting him in the proper way as dh and I apparently did not know how to do.
More power to the, right?!
AB-so-effing-lutely!! They
AB-so-effing-lutely!! They all belong together!
Yeah. I won't even TRY to
Yeah. I won't even TRY to come up with a list. Your's has topped all.
And my skids were pretty decent, for sure. A little playing the households against each other by SD but otherwise, they were awesome until the later teens.
Yeah, I really had planned
Yeah, I really had planned for it to be more of a list of some of the "stupid" or "ridiculous" stuff that ss had done (like the dead fish thing) but it really sort of took on a life of it's own.
I'm sorry you had to deal
I'm sorry you had to deal with this. This kid should be in a hospital/center for troubled teens. I have to wonder if he was sexually abused, based on his behaviors.
When they were much younger, my SDs (under BMs orders) stole some money from me. Not much, just about $10.
SS has stole hundred dollar
SS has stole hundred dollar bills from dh and I when he was younger. I also used to find envelopes of money and I'd have no idea where he got it and he would say, "I found it". I couldnt even return it to the rightful owner. He used to make excuses to come back into the classroom when the other kids went out to recess so he could go through their backpacks and steal things. This is one of his behaviors that have not changed at all over the years. He went to a neighboring school last year-one of his classmates there randomly facebooked my daughter and told her all the stuff that ss stole from him. He has stolen money, gift cards that the other kids got as xmas presents from all the kids.
You know we definitely talked
You know we definitely talked to him about the sexual abuse thing when he was younger-you know good touch/bad touch and he always denied any sort of thing like that happening. Dh even talked to bm about it and she talked to him about it and he denied it to her as well and she could not think of anytime something like that would occur.
Oh, which reminds me of
13. When ss was 11 and dd was also 11 we went camping. We had always had a 5 person tent for the kids when they were younger for camping and dh and I would share a tent. We hadnt been in a couple years and really did not think things through so that's on us. But we put all four of our kids in the tent-ss11, dd11, ds10, and dd7. Laid the two girls next to one another. Placed the two boys next to each other going horizontally. The first night dd11 woke up with ss pressed against her back. There was ds that was in between them when they feel asleep and they were facing opposite directions so how that happened I wasnt sure. But I chose to believe it was simply a bizarre misunderstanding. Shame on me.
The next night after dh talked with ss about staying in one spot-no moving around-we again made sure they were far apart- and took a blanket and rolled it up between girls side/boys side. Guess what? SHe woke up the next night with him laying next to her. At this point, my dh spoke pretty harshly to ss and he ended up sleeping outside the remaining night in a chair. We dont know for sure that anything happened. DD said to her knowlege he wasnt touching her of fondling her in any sort of way-just laying right up next to her which grossed her out completely-but it was enough to make me ill. He went home and told bm and she called dh and told him that he needed to watch what kinds of accusations he made toward ss because those are serious ones. Well, duh.
Although I hate thinking about this stuff, I need to remind myself occassionally so I dont ever let my guard down again around that little freak. (Yes, I called him a name but dammit it's so fitting)
The last sentence should NOT
The last sentence should NOT have made me laugh. But I am rolling on the floor!
This is hilarious!!!! It
This is hilarious!!!! It created a real visual image for me.
It's amazing what one can get used to over the years.
OMG I just laughed at that
OMG I just laughed at that last line so loudly my boss called me from the other office and said "SHARE IT" LMAO!! SO FUNNY
Let's see...SD14 has: 1.
Let's see...SD14 has:
1. Pretended that she loved me to my face from day one, but was lying to her grandparents, therapist and mother saying I was horrid to her and abused her physically and verbally
2. Lied to her therapist stating she'd been involved in the ATV accident that almost took mine and my daughter's life
3. Told DH to never touch me or kiss me in her presence or have sex with me whenever she was staying at our place
4. Kicked my cat under the table because she thought I wasn't looking
5. Tried to pour Windex in our fish tank (I caught her before she could)
6. Lied to my daughter to borrow her cell phone saying hers was broken (she was grounded at our house from her phone) only to call her boyfriend and proceed to talk so nasty and porn star-ish that my daughter kicked her out of their shared room because she was so disgusted (this was when SD was 13)
7. Demanded DH stop dating me and never marry me or she'd never come over again
8. Threw a major temper tantrum in the middle of the amusement park when my daughter and her friend teased DH and I about getting married someday. She burst into tears, started screaming and yelling that DH couldn't marry me, he belonged with her mother, SHE wouldn't allow it, etc. When the 15 minute tirade ended, she proceeded to pout and cry the entire rest of the day we were at the amusement park and refused to ride any rides, therefore making her $40 entry fee worthless
9. Stole my makeup and hair ties and 15 beers out of the fridge and blamed my daughter did it
10. Got onto her dad's phone and looked at all of his text messages, then sent a raunchy text to BM pretending to be my DH to try and get him in "trouble" with me
Oh there's at least 2 yrs worth of shit I could post but I'm headed out of the office for the weekend.
Wow to number 3... Did your
Wow to number 3... Did your dh agree to that?
And is number 7 a promise? Because that sounds pretty good to me.