BM showed at the therapist this time...
After threatening to cancel all of SD6's appointments and change her insurance because CPS is investigating BM she decided to show up this time. And as with everything else she HAS to be in control. DH and I have explained this to the therapist down the fact that SD missed her first appointment because of BM, would have missed her last appointment if we had agreed to let BM take her and just last week after missing her 2nd dentist appointment in a row, can't see that dentist anymore because BM is just irresponsible.
So what does the idiot therapist do? Lets schedule SD's next appointment on her day.When BM WAS handling the therapy and scheduling she took SD to two appointments before pulling a no call /no show and that was that. I realize that therapist try to be impartial but when SD doesn't make her next appointment and we say I told you so, will he discharge SD as a patient?
DH AND I have set this up. WW have been the ones taking her and now it's the BM show? C'mon Man! I seriously feel like we just wasted months of our time getting her into therapy, taking her and trying to get the kid help.
Not to mention this dude is SO clueless that he actually suggested DH and BM come in together. We're going to court next minth and you can't mediate with a LIAR. UGH.
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Yeah, I read another post on
Yeah, I read another post on here where it was the same thing and she got excluded. The the-rapist gave me the "I know you're a big part of her life but I'd like to meet with just the two of them initially." speech. I just read a post about borderline personalit disorder and it describes BM to a T. She lies to EVERYONE and then plays the victim, it's always about her feeeeelings. The biggest problem is that she's a lying, selfish, greedy whore who gets pissed when DH calls her out on it especially since he was basically a doormat for years. Couples therapy didn't change that before they decided to get divorced and like you said, this is about the kid.
Agreed. I just figured that
Agreed. I just figured that was the clinical term for it. Haha.
True. She was diagnosed
True. She was diagnosed Bi-polar in the army and takes Adderall for her "Adult ADHD" not to mention whatever she can scam off her son's script and the street. Since the family court system is so fucked I'm worried that everything we have will be overlooked anyway and this whole thing will be pushed out for months and months.
I really think having children should be a privilege.
Is this idiot actually doing
Is this idiot actually doing anything to help your sd?
If he's an ineffective idiot, start shopping for a new therapist.
If he's just an idiot but he's actually helping her, call and change the appointment.
He hasn't been seeing her
He hasn't been seeing her long enough to know if it's actually helped especially since SD was at our house for majority of July anD just getting enough sleep combined with rules, structure and food that didn't come from a box seems to have helped. One of the biggest problems is that BM encourages SD to lie. She encouraged her to lie to DH and even her ex boyfriend, who finally dumped her after a year and a half of on and off again b.s. and her cheating repeatedly.
I'm thinking shopping for a new therapist isn't a baday idea especially since we bring up things like SD lying to us with BM's encouragement. That was something we asked him about how to handle and he couldn't give me an answer. Do we punish her for lying even though it's at BM's request/insistence? We do have a call in to him to request to change the appointment but I think overall BM's involvement will be more detrimental than anything else. She's more concerned with pretending to be a good mother/person to even think about the fact that this is about SD not her.
Getting DH back with BM is
Getting DH back with BM is laughable! When she got caught cheating on her ex boyfriend the first time she actually claimed to have been raped. The last several times she just denied it and he stuck around because he'd gotten attached to her kids. The slore can't keep a man because she's bat shit crazy, I'm just glad DH damn well knows it and after talking to her ex he knows it wasn't just him.
He did exactly that! DH is
He did exactly that! DH is opposed to attending anything alone from doctors appointment to therapist appointments. He feels that there's nothing that this guy can say to him that can't be said to me and since I have to deal with BM just the same her actions and lies impact me just as much.
SD's therapist made dh go in
SD's therapist made dh go in with bm alone together. BM monopolized the whole time with such gems as "Teacher called to tell me sd is so creative and talented that the deadlines won't actually apply to her." The truth is the teacher called to inform her the girl is flunking! It was miserable. DH couldn't believe he paid money to sit through that.
That's the same bs that this
That's the same bs that this broad spouts out. She took over half if SD's appointment yesterday and then this idiot therapist tells us that our concerns are mostly family court issues. With CPS investigating BM she's become even more unbearable than before and of course it's all DH's fault. I explained to the therapist ahead of time how BM deals with everything, I mean SD literally missed her first appointment because BM didn't believe she actually had an appointment and couldn't be bothered to call to confirm it. BM is NEVER at fault for anything and she's expecting her mother of the year award any day now.