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And yet more favoritism

Jcksjj's picture

Its SDs birthday (yay only 9 more years to go). SIL posted a long over the top happy birthday on Facebook to her. Complete with all the ridiculous "princess pictures" she took awhile back. She does not usually do that. MIL usually does, and she has not posted anything. Hmm. 

Did SIL post anything for her nephews birthdays? Or other SILs kids birthdays? Nope. 

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simifan's picture

Why is your DH ok with his younger children treated like second class citizens? If they can't treat all the children the same, block them and cut them all off. It is okay to remove toxicity from your like, At least that way the younger children won't be exposed to it. 

Jcksjj's picture

Hes not okay with it and is STARTING to stand up to them, but not to the degree that I would and that's what's stressing me out about this - that we disagree on how to handle it (or more likely that hes afraid to).

advice.only2's picture

If you can't unfriend them and block them, then just un-follow them. Are you sure the MIL hasn't blocked you?

Jcksjj's picture

I can see all her other posts so I don't think so. But DH just called her and FIL out on their favoritism last week so I'm wondering if she told SIL to post it for her.

Jcksjj's picture

They don't usually post things publicly. But since DH is starting to see the light and get fed up with it anyway hopefully soon they will be way less involved in our lives anyway. I really just need to care less. Its not like they add anything to our lives anyway.