This is the longest SD had been away from our house since I've known her. BM said she wanted to keep her during the original 2 weeks that school was cancelled. Plus she was at the inlaws the weekend before. So by time time it's our week again she will have been gone for the majority of the month. I still have no idea why BM has done a 180 and keeps asking to have her for extra full weeks, but obviously we're not going to fight her on it. There's no reason for her to sit in the house with me all day instead of being at her moms.

Honestly, despite the anxiety and stress because of the current crisis, being home with just my kids for this extended period of time has been fantastic. I still don't understand how I've lived with a kid for nearly half her life and have zero bond to her (and vice versa). But this is proof - it's just not there. I don't miss her the slightest bit. 

I'm hoping BM will ask (or agree to) switch to an EOW schedule at least until school is done. The homeschool stuff that just started this week is more involved then I expected and I don't feel like being responsible for setting up all the video calls and making sure shes doing her homework. I barely have time to get through ODS' since the younger 2 kids are at such demanding ages.  DH is still working since hes supposedly "essential" and won't have the time to do it either. Not sure we should text BM and ask her if she is able to be at home with her right now (she likely is) or wait for her to say something first...