So I haven't given an update on SD17 and our fiasco over the holiday vacation because honestly, I can not discuss it without wanting to kill something. I just picked up my SS15 to take him to the ortho and who almost hits me flying into the HS parking lot, my SD17 who apparently is skipping first and 2nd period. Well I flip around to try and confront her and ask why she is coming to school late and she had seen me and rushed to get into school. But, I saw her and she glared at me before going in the door. I called the attendance office from the car and asked what her note said, thinking maybe BM sent her to therapy like she promised us. Nope! She had a headache and I signed the note. Clarified it wasn't me, it must have been BM but I don't see how she works a lot and we know this is a problem of SD's. So they asked me to verify if BM signed it, so I call DH and fill him in and try and go about my day. Telling him that if BM didn't sign it, I am telling the school. Well BM is working and since Thursday is a 12 hour shift for her, pretty clear she didn't write it. BM hasn't called DH back. So I called the school and told the lady to verify with BM if she signed it, but I thought that BM may cover for her. They tell me she did this last week to.

My 2nd call to DH to see if BM called back, I told him I was telling the school what I knew and it was up to them to proceed. So now they will call BM to verify the note. I told her she may want to verify any others she had.

Let the chips fall where they may. That kid knows I saw her. It will come back to me, but I don't care. You played us on that vacation. You ruined my vacation and you are playing everyone around you. I will not let you play me anymore. She is not welcome here and I told DH if BM doesn't punish her in some way and stick to it, then when all hell breaks loose, do not call us. We will not help you....

I may not have custody of you, but I will parent you in some way, however I can. I also, did something else about a trip she was planning for a mission trip and her bragging about not working and going for the pot and fun in the sun. Not fair to this pastor, so I happen to know someone and got his information and told him what happened and that she is bi-polar and not being treated properly and it was not fair to him to take her to Haiti for a mission trip and if something happened we are still liable. Needless to say she doesn't know what I did, but they are not taking her or her drug-addicted friend.

I may only be your SM and have no custody to try and parent you, but I will sure as hell not contribute to your delinquency. Raging bitch session over....One done SM.