Things are just moving along here. Bios are doing great, getting ready for school. SS22 (autistic) is taking drivers training and is excited for the potential of getting his driver's license. DH is doing good at his new command. He seems to like his new position and I'm happy that he is where he should be career wise. Not looking forward to his deployment/underways that will  be starting sooner than later, but we will be fine. I have lived this life before.

I'm running a little rough, I had gastric sleeve surgery and have had a hard time healing. The good news is I am 1/2 way to my goal weight at 5 weeks out! I am just waiting for the energy boost that everyone claims happens and the nausea to end! 

So things have been quiet on the SS17 front. DH hasn't heard from him in over a year with the exception of spring break when it was a single text the day before the flight of "I'm not coming". 

We haven't heard from the lawyer on contempt, settling the 32K that BM thinks she is owed, nothing. I am sitting here wondering if I should call our lawyer or not to try and push a hearing date again or just let it go. SS will be 18 in 7 weeks, he still has his Sr. year of HS but DH will be gone for most of that and pretty much the year after that. So do we just let this ride out with the soldiers and sailors act and not have that hearing for years and maybe it will go away or do I push for a resolution before DH goes? Decisions, decisions...