So we got nothing in court

Nothing bad, nothing good... Just nothing.

The judge told BM's lawyer to draw up a final agreement... They didn't. So now he told our lawyer to. So that is it. The end. No Christmas break. Nothing about spring break or summer break or anything. Just write what they discussed in court in APRIL. Which was: sure, dad can have spring break and "part of summer".

Our lawyer said he is going to get it done asap and then file an immediate motion to modify. Yay... Merry Christmas to us.

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What a crappy Judge. Can't

What a crappy Judge. Can't say I am surprised, though.

Sheesh, he could have ordered

Sheesh, he could have ordered some time for these holidays. BM bias.

Sorry, but I'm not surprised.

Sorry, but I'm not surprised. Last time we had a modification the judge gave BM money she didn't even ask for. Now we have to pay more money out to get it changed. Blah. Six more years, six more years.

Yep. BM's lawyer didn't show

Yep. BM's lawyer didn't show so the judge told our lawyer to do what he told her lawyer to do in April and that is it.

What the?!

One would think... but in

One would think... but in po-dunk midwest, I guess not...

I thought for sure there was going to be a bench warrant, she was going to lose. She was going to have to pay the flight cost. All of it! I was so sure a judge was going to see past the bullshit!

I live in po-dunk midwest.

I live in po-dunk midwest. Once, BM's attorney didn't show up and the Judge made BM represent herself.

I can't believe you guys don't have any recourse for what the Judge did.

Are you sure this isn't

Are you sure this isn't upstate NY? Our court date is the 8th of January. Should be interesting seeing the Girhippo voluntarily quit her well paying CPS job to be a waitress at a casino--Chef's wages have gone down drastically as well.

We're hoping that the magistrate will constructively emancipate SD19 but odds are not good on that one. Even though Chef hasn't laid eyes on her for coming up on 10 years. And she's refused reunification attempts as well as revealing her college grades.

We're also hoping to lay groundwork for college requirements--not just year upon year of academic probation, switching majors and failing out of remedial high school courses in community college--all the while CS still flows to the mothership.

Also a downward mod for YSS stb 15 would be nice. He'll be 15 by the time we go to court. CS goes to 21 here. I don't even want to THINK about all the money Chef has poured down the rat hole for the past thirteen years.