OMG! Drop off and pickup a PRODUCTION! VENT!!!VENT!!
My FH always asks me if I want to go with him to drop off "baby". In the beginning he basically begged me to go..hey fine with me-shows me he's not hiding anything..but now that so much has happened with BM,etc. I can't stomach going there anymore.
So FH goes yesterday after picking up SS5 from school to pick up "Baby". Of course SS5 has to go into house (Ms. Piggy always gives him snacks,etc). It's never just a stand at door pickup leave when SS5 is with FH.
So than last night we all went out to eat, FH,my BD13,SS5 and "baby". When we were done eating we drop "baby" off..but NO it HAS to be a friggen' production EVERY time. SS5 wants to go back in because "mommy" is there (Ms. Piggy's mom). FH goes to door to drop off "baby"..than 2 minutes later comes back to car..and gets SS5 out..WTF! "Ms. Piggy's mom wants to see him, she has something for him"..this whole time SS5 is saying he wants to go in to see them so he bolts out of the car as soon as FH opens it. So another few minutes go by..with Ms. Piggy, her mom..everyone making such a production of hugging SS..etc..etc..than as SS is leaving their yelling out the door "I love you"..WTF!!! Seriously. I told FH last night..this is seriously ridiculous that it's a production two times a week twice a day at pickup and dropoff. He tells me "she doesn't have a life" NO shytt..he's very supportive..but still I want to smack the Pig. So I change my myspace status to Sympathetic (GAL) - get a life..as soon as I get home because she stalks my myspace page..ARRGG!
So I've decided I just can't go to pickup and dropoff anymore..because it just infuriates me...but than again I try to think that it must infuriate her that I'm there..so maybe I will continue.
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It's the BM's only shot at cornering your DH
for a few minutes and reminding him of what a wonderful "family" life they all had togehter. It's pathetic and most BM's try this stupid cherade.
The Human Beast Bitch still expects DH to come to the door, knock, open the door, come inside, talk to her for a while, ask her how everyhting is, and carry SD 14's stuff to the car, and make sure he opens and shuts the car door for her.
How do you say this in beast bitch language..........RIDICULOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't go anymore
I stopped going with DH to pick up/ drop off the kids a long time ago (when our schedule was that way). Being within a 100' radius of BM makes me want to punch her, and sitting in front of whatever crap hole she was living in made me more mad. And BM would let her little one (not DH's kid) come outside and talk to us and would have her ask us "can I come to your house to play with my sissies?". How awful is that??? And this little kid is beyond cute, so how much of a bitch did I feel like when I had to tell her no.
So, best advice is to not go. The same crap will go on, but at least it's not shoved in your face. And obviously they are not together anymore, so trust your FH and just laugh at how pitiful BM is.
Ummmmm "Put your crap in the car we are leaving".
Should solve the problem. I would have the My time is my time and goodbyes are said before I show up and hellos are said after I leave.
If GrandMa is the issue and Grandma has no specific judgement for visitation then GrandMa time happens on BMs time.
My Mom's time happens on my time. Her Mom getting kid time during my visitation (30secs or 30 hours makes no difference) is NOT HAPPENING!
If I was in a blended family situation with a BioKid. Thankfully I am not.
Just my thoughts of course.
Best regards
I totally agree, Rags
"If GrandMa is the issue and Grandma has no specific judgement for visitation then GrandMa time happens on BMs time."
FH needs to shut this down. But if he won't- then just don't go.
"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"
It just infuriates me how
It just infuriates me how than SS comes out and is all "look what Ms. Piggy got me" ARRGGH!! He is too young to realize that he is being manipulated! Funny thing is too she buys nothing, her mom works at a thrift store and gets everything for FREE! so it's all hand me down that is donated but SS doesn't know it. I HATE HER! Guess it makes me feel better to know she stalks my myspace so means she is probably way more jealous of me.
Well Grandma isn't even SS's
Well Grandma isn't even SS's grandma, but Ms. Piggy "babysat" SS for about 2 yrs. so SS knows her as grandma.