So someone either BM or her boyfriend, is using SS's phone to try and get us to get him while he's there to provide childcare. They keep sending messages asking if we can come pick him up or if he can go to my child's daycare (where I occasionally sub. If he's with me then he goes too because it's often only 2-3 hours). 
 

of course the answer is no. No, I will not watch him on your time and no he can't go to my daughters daycare (unless you enroll him). If you want him not at home, find a camp for him. The BF and SS don't get along so he doesn't want him there alone (it's the BF's house). However he DOES want BM to work so they trying to find a way to get rid of SS without paying for childcare. They keep sending things like " you need to meet us half way" and "why are you being difficult" when we are just following the court order. My husband just ignores it. But I kind of want to say that we are meeting you half way. BM gets almost $600 in child support every month. Childcare is supposed to be included in that. Either pay for childcare or let him stay home. She wanted primary custody and got it. Now it's time to deal with the responsibility of having him most of the time.  It's really that simple. should I say anything or just let it be. I still don't get why they are fussing though because summer Visitation is week to week so it's not every other week they are having to worry about. 
 

Side note: I can't wait for next year when he's a teen and there are no camps for him to go to!!!!