I think I'm ending the marriage
It's just one thing after the next. I'm NUMBER 5 in his life,
after the three adult STEPBRATS and his mommy.
We are SUPPOSED to go to Myrtle Beach August 9th. One would think he would be planning a GREAT time with is wife. (My own 16 year old daughter is bringing a friend; I don't think any
of his bitches are coming); ANYHOO, I find out that his OLDEST (29) brat Emailed him that she is having a PARTY at her house on the 16th. (the day we're driving back to PA); of course, I DID NOT RECEIVE anything about it.
Well, he decided that since "HE" (never WE, because I'm not
part of the equation) received this invite, perhaps we will
STOP there and STAY OVER. How do I tell my daughter's friend, who is absolutely NOT clued in on this, or her PARENTS, that because HIS DAUGHTER is jealous because DADDY is going to MYRTLE BEACH and has decided that DADDY must be at this party,
that we won't be BACK when planned?
I am so sick of "ME!!" "She Emailed ME!!" Well, if she respected us as a COUPLE, she would have EMAILED "US"
Fearless, I need your GUTS right now. I don't need this.
I'm sick of FOOTING bills, putting up with being LAST.
To boot, the strangest thing in my LIFE happened. I was
watching The View, eating pizza, and a piece of cheese fell
on my lower mouth. I have second degree burns on my lower
face. In 45 years, nothing like this has EVER happened to
me. It's KARMA, I swear. The universe is telling me SOMETHING.
Do you think I even got a HUG from this monster? He looked at
me like I was from another planet. I just think I want to
file for DIVORCE, take my OWN money and RUN.
Thanks for letting me vent. I'm sick of being the GOOD GIRL,
doing everything RIGHT and NICE, and as SOON as those NASTY
BITCHES dictate to DADDY what we're doing, I'm supposed to just
nod and agree.
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Oh, KK, I'm SO sorry to hear this!
I really thought that things were headed in a positive direction for you since you last put your foot down with your DH. This is very sad and quite surprising.
Please PM me and let me know if there is anything I can do. Hell, I can drive up to see you if you need me to. (I've been craving a road trip for a while now!)
Stay strong and do what you need to do to keep yourself healthy and SANE. You have been through the ringer with your DH and his girls. I can't tell you what final decisions to make, but you know I am hear to support you in whatever you do!
"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis
as a recenlty retired
SM myself i know if yo go through with it these next few months will be very hard for you but i have now found light at the end of the tunnel. my illness doesnt affect me half as much becasue all my energy is focused on me now not us well him then me. my one big suggestion is get a kitten. good luck to you
life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you )
Kittens!!
I already have three gorgeous cats (ergo, Kittykat); they keep me
SANE!!
I am so sorry to hear this
I am not "up to date" on your story, but have you tried counseling? Maybe Dh would act better if he had someone else tell him how his actions are affecting you?
I'm sorry
I'm shocked that those people would behave like that! I'm pretty new to all this and our skids are just teens. I can't imagine how it is to hav grown adults behaving badly.
I think you're probably doing the right thing. We're already having "us" versus "me" issues now, but at least my dh is willing to hear my rants and do something to change his thinking/behavior. What's happing to you is simply unacceptable. It is the dh's job to stand up for you and to make sure that things happen as a team and not solo...I mean, what's the point of being together if you're still going to be entirely solo people.
Good luck with everything!