So, due to a technicality, BM and FH weren't divorced when we first met :O Seven years and 2 kids later, the divorce is FINALLY here and we are engaged to be married Add to that the fact that she is now off his medical benefits (something she was trying to hold over him in order for her to sign the d-papers)...AND her daughter (from a previous relationship - ie. one-night stand with her dad's friend, who FH was paying for, BUT who never comes over anymore - she's only 11) is going to be dropped from CS, which FH's lawyer said FH was paying too much for in the first place, so they're going to try to get it REDUCED! Can I just say "HA HA"?

After all the drama she's caused over the years, trying to make our lives a living hell, she's finally going to get what's coming to her! All she's ever cared about was the money, which she'll spend all in one weekend (then have the gall to complain that she's broke!) for things to give to her spoiled kids who have no respect or appreciation for anyone or anything! The kids are no better - they act out and misbehave and still have the nerve to ask for treats! All thanks to the way BM is raising them. Well, THEY'RE going to get what's coming to them, too. No more taking them places, no more buying them treats, no more extravagant gifts for birthdays/Christmases. They threaten not to come over anymore - BOO HOO, like THAT's going to be much of a threat! And BM wouldn't hold them back for anything - she likes her free weekends too much.

All I can say is "Watch out!" cause the harsh realities of life are coming straight for them!