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Submitted by Last-Wife on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 6:30pm

BM and her hubby came to get one of the skids tonight. I stuck to my disengagement plan from her and her drama, and "hid" in the bathroom the whole time she was here! I now have a lovely new pedicure, and sculpted eyebrows!

SS14 was going for the weekend. She was irritated SD17 had to work, and she hasn't seen SS15 since Christmas, so she and her hubby came in for a bit to sit with the other two kids and catch up with them about school and stuff.

She asked a few times where I was, and she was being so obnoxiously loud, that I simply turned up the radio to tune her out and painted my toenails and shaped my eyebrows.

I'm so happy with myself!

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Snarky's picture

Submitted by Snarky on Sat, 01/30/2010 - 12:18am

BM scares me as well; she is a convicted felon for Pete's sake! She is not allowed on our property, EVER!!!

Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz

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Submitted by fedup315 on Sat, 01/30/2010 - 11:05am

I know this isn't going to come accross as mature or correct, but I do basically the same thing every other weekend when SS13 comes for the weekend.. I spend a lot of time in my room or out of the house just to avoid him because I can't stand him. He has caused so much trouble, he is a liar, a master manipulator and just a brat. HE loves him BM so damn much and just shits on his BD.. he lays it on so damn thick it's sickening... I just can't fake it with him.
I feel terrible for feeling so strongly about a child, but he is just a brat.
This is my fault though... I never had the conversation I should have with my DH before getting married... not really.. not that I think he really heard... I don't want to be their mom.. I never did... SD17 lives with us and I find her taking for granted that I will do anything for her and I resent that... I am not here to take over her BM's responsiblities... it frosts me... I think I need counselling.

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Submitted by MsPerception on Sat, 01/30/2010 - 11:37am

Fedup dont feel bad I did the same thing-door closed to our room and only my kids were allowed in to see/hang out with me. I didn't care-bf wouldn't see all I had done for him and ss7 and sd8 so I had absolutely NO problem disengaging from all of them-go in turn up radio shut door. Pretty much guaranteed he wouldn't even come in there to even see what was wrong. And if I came out I had my iPod turned up full blast so there was no mistaking I was ignoring people. It sucked but my point got acorss but only for a few days-why I moved out. I like things to be a bit more structured, planned, scheduled-would be why my kids are doing well in school and our bills paid on time and life is functioning unlike bf's mess-kids being held back his father yells at him for what the property looks like he lives on >:)

**I only have one shot at a truly great life and not one spent waiting for a man to notice me, want me, love me and be true to only me. 2010 is the year of "me" **

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Submitted by Angel72 on Sat, 01/30/2010 - 11:10pm

She came into your house?..um...not in my situ...she wants to visit her kids she can do it outside my humble home....thank u! lol
I'm surprised your husband doesn't stop her at the door.
Keep ignoring her...she obviously get a rise from irritating you.