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lieutenant_dad's picture

Aniki - I'm not mad at you, but I can't message you.

Dawn - is there a reason why I am blocked from sending messages to anyone??? I can receive, but can't send. It's freaking Aniki out. 

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lieutenant_dad's picture

Genuinely curious - how did Aniki send me a message, then, since we aren't friends (have a pending invite, but my phone didn't like me adding friends until today)?

Also, did I miss a statement about this? There are times that I may want to reach out to someone who isn't a friend for a variety of reasons (eg, offer support on a specific blog, grab a recipe) and it may be time-sensitive (or, more accurately, I won't remember later).

twoviewpoints's picture

I now see the change on the profiles. It use to say "send so and so a message" and that option is gone. All it now shows is about being so and so's friend. 

Was this a new site change thing or is it just a new 'rule' thing admin. has decided to implement? 

 

 

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Mine still shows the option to Send this user a private message Yahoo

lieutenant_dad's picture

I can now, you saucy devil, you! Speaking of saucy, we need some new drink recipes here soon...

lieutenant_dad's picture

Dawn, can we have an open discussion bout this? I have never received a barrage of messages from people being nasty. Even if I did, I could just delete and ignore. Eventually we will be able to block, too, yes?

Maybe I was a lucky one who didn't get harassed, but I feel a bit like the lot of us are getting punished because of a few bad apples. Not that it is hard to friend someone, but there may be times where I immediately want to offer support to someone who is clearly hurting instead of them waiting to answer a friend request. Plus, even if I accept someone as a friend, that doesn't stop them from harassing me once it is accepted and until I end that relationship.

I do understand that you are trying to make sure everyone remains civil and has a good time, but blocking PMs seems a bit heavy-handed. Making it more difficult for the community to communicate won't stop a-holes. It will just make them start calling people out in public, airing information that not all us need or want to know.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Previously, we could block a sender through the PM they sent. That's how I blocked nasty people from contacting me again.