"No one will love me when the baby's born"
Said SS4 to his Bampi. No wonder he's acting up in nursery if that's how he feels! BM doesn't stop talking about "the baby" which isn't even due for another 4/5 months! Literally she text FDH to tell him she was having a boy (she told us that weeks ago!) and then casually mentioned at the end of the text their son had hit someone! Surely the fact SS hit someone in nursery should come at the start of the text!! SS4 winds me up at times when he constantly talks about "Matthew daddy", BM's boyfriend but seriously, the poor kid! I'm not surprised he's lashing out if he feels like nobody will love him!!
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It's not even about the "new
It's not even about the "new baby", she just says "the baby", like the baby is the only thing that matters in the world. His bampi (BM's Dad) told FDH what SS had said when he went to pick him up this evening. FDH tried speaking to SS this evening and his response was just "I know people will still love me" but my concern is that he was obviously upset enough to say it in the first place. Sure he makes out it's all fine now but it's obviously not. Poor little man. We've spent the evening just spending time with him, reassuring him he'll still be loved but also saying that SS will have to be a loving big brother because babies need a lot of looking after. I wish BM would include him more and I'm really hoping and praying that when the new baby comes, she will pay more attention to SS. Though I don't hold out much hope