On SD weeks I've been having to see BM EVERY day at the school. I don't know about you, but it bothers me to have to stand so close to someone I truly hate. I also realized that I'm become some sort of approved method of communication for BM and DH. It's just become easier for BM to say give this to (DH) for me, or DH to say ask (BM) about this when you see her. I know it may seem like I'm the logical choice since I'm there everyday, but, again, I truly hate this woman, and I literally have a bad day when I have to communicate with her. So I told DH I'm there to pick up SD and that's it! Any exchanging of items can happen on Sundays at pu/do, and any exchange of information can happen at 7 every night, the time they chose to communicate with SD and each other. Does that mean DH will have to speak to BM every day? Yes, but it also means I don't! DH is perfectly understanding, lets see how it goes next week when I tell BM I'm not going to tell DH this or give DH that. I'm sure he'll get a call about it.