New Year Battle's
DH and I are looking at this new year in a different light, we refuse to let anything from the past that his BM has done affect us.......Ladies lets stand up and forget about these crazy BM's in 2010....I was watching a t.v show this morning and this couple really had me thinking about my marriage and what i watned it to continue to be....we are the ones who have these men in our house and dont let these BM's or any fears of the past ruin what we can achieve with our men....
Johnandhelenburns.com (talk about overcoming a lot)
Chime in ladies, what are we holding on too that is holding back our break through.....
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I agree with you 100%
I agree with you 100% Misery. I have heard BM say I took her man - and have seen other women say almost the same things on here.
My take on things - when my DH and BM relationship ended he stopped being her man. He is her child's father - nothing more and nothing less. Bottom line.
He is my husband, we are married and are putting our concentration on us and our children (BD & SD). BM will always be herself... and will probably always hate us until SD is grown.
Since there is nothing we can do about it to change her - we don't let it affect our marriage. We let the lawyer and courts handle her - I vent here - he vents elsewhere - and that's it.
She (BM) is not important in our relationship at all - so we kicked her out last year. It is good to look at it that way for us.
********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************
i know that is right girl,
i know that is right girl, thanks for chiming in....i tell my DH all the time i am glad we are not letting her ruin what we have and in todays society where marriages are already hard as it is to stay positive we dont need anymore people adding to our pot of stress...LOL....my DH has a saying that a new year gives us a chance to focus on us again.....so keep praying for us and we will do the same...(we are trying to add to our family in this new year)....i tell my DH everyday i love him no matter what and i want all of us on hear to try it.....i guess i will call my DH at work and let him know dont be tired when he gets home i got something for him..LOL......thanks again ima....