SD17 car issues
SD17 texted me the other morning, ended up with her agreeing to leave her car here in the afternoon, that way when we got back from Cali, she could just drive home. She agreed that it would be easier.
So we are getting ready, getting packed and here she comes rolling up with her boyfriend, in his TRUCK! Its not that I actually expected her to do what she said she was going to do. I immediately ran to BF and told him what had happened, that she agreed to drive her car here and leave it here, and now suddenly she shows up in her boyfriends car.
So we are ready to leave, but OH!!! SD17 forgot her jacket. So she calls her boyfriend to bring it to her.
So we are waiting, packing things into the expedition. Suddenly BM's car pulls up... but its not BM driving, its BM's boyfriend.... so now it makes perfect sense why SD17 came here with her boyfriend... because BMs boyfriends car is broke down, and so BMs boyfriend gets to drive BMs car and BM gets to drive SD17s car.
Okay, so I really don't care what happens. WHO or when she lends her car to people, but WHY can't she just say the TRUTH???? SD17 feels like she has to lie in order to defend her BM. Its not BMs fault that her boyfriend truck is broke down. Because when BMs car was broke down, BM's boyfriend would not let her use his truck. SOOO WHY WHY WHY does the whole world have to change in order to keep BMs BOyfriend HAPPY????????
Why does this drive me crazy????
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It drives you crazy because
It drives you crazy because you let it.
I lent my car to my mom when I went away and didn't need it for a while. Whats the big deal?
Things happen. Maybe it happened AFTER she said she would park at your house. Maybe not, but really...who cares?
I am sorry you are feeling stressed (obviously since this little thing bugs you). You should find an outlet to relieve stress...sleep, yoga, baths, etc...whatever and stop sweating the small stuff. Which this is. Just enjoy your time in Cali and stop worrying about little things.
You should also look within yourself to find out what about this situation bugs you...so you can work on that.
Jen
It bothers me because BM and
It bothers me because BM and SD17 are always trying to manuipulate everything, every situation... they can never just tell the truth. I guess I was raised in a house where it was best to tell the truth and these people were obviously raised in a house where it is best to lie.
I really don't get SD17 sometimes. She will come to our house crying over her BM sometimes, about how she makes all these promises that she never keeps. But then she bends over backwards for BM every day of her life. I guess maybe I really am just jealous that they have this relationship. Of course, if I did something wrong or something they may have seen as wrong, the first thing they do is tell their BM and then BM calls BF and bitches him out.
So I guess I would like to see someone actually on my side every once in a while. Thats what drive me crazy. Everything that the kids do is always protecting their BM, BUT BF gets no thanks, he gets nothing, he only gets guilt trips, and "we want more". BM does nothing EVER!!! and gets the whole package.
ALSO!!!!! When BM had no car, her boyfriend would never let her use his car!!! So we were always the driver taking the kids to and from her house. SOOO why does SD17 bend over backwards for this man who won't even allow her brother and sister to spend the night??? SD17 acts like this man is the best thing that ever happened to her. Its funny, because he has never came to any of the school functions or anything. I come to everything I can and I get shit. UGH.