DH heart attack
Last week my DH had a heart attack while at home with ss. he was unresponsive and was sent to ICU for a few days. He stayed in the hospital for a week. Many things were factors into my DH heart attack however an overdose like his ex wife has claimed and taken him to court for and also filed for a temporary custody order. A certain medicine was given to my DH when he came in that is given for people who overdose however standard protocol for a hospital is to give that medicine if the person isnt breathing right. no doctor treated or declared overdose and DH wouldn't do that.
instead of flying with my husband i made sure ss was all packed for his trip with BM even after she called police twice that day and verbally abused me and my DH up and down left and right. She got her order granted thinking my DH was in a coma and not getting out. she was wrong and surprised when DH called to talk with ss. she made it a point to say through ss that he was enrolled in school with her. blood pressure soared in DH. our attorney had hearing over phone with judge and other attorney. order was overturned and we have ss back with us. she was 2 hours late dropping him off and we sat there at a rest stop. DH is so stressed and boggled by her that he might send himself into the hospital again. ss6 doesnt know any better and is being used as a tool for her to punish DH for some unknown reason. she hates dealing with me but that is what she gets. im protecting my husband and trying to let ss know that anywhere he is will be ok. no need to scare him but DH isn't happy because she harasses so much.
court is at the end of the month and i can't wait to see her smashed. a BM who left her kid for 4 yrs then do slander DH so much and to rip the kid from what he is used to for just one day and screw up everyones life. psychological help is what is needed for her to show the craziness.
any advice for DH who has been great to ss and needs to destress????
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So much to deal with. You
So much to deal with. You have my sympathy. Thank goodness the judge reversed the order.
Margaritaville? I hope, for
Margaritaville? I hope, for you DH's sake, that it's in the CO (or is put in the CO at upcoming court hearing) that all communication between him and BM goes through you. I know that puts a good bit of strain on you, but seems your DH's health can't withstand the constant stress of dealing w/ BM. In this way, if it's important (i.e. ss just got stung by a bee and is in the hospital w/ anaphylactic shock), you relay the message. If it's court/legal related, you send it to the lawyer and bring DH into the loop once a game plan has been orchestrated. If it's BM being catty/manipulative/psycho/petty/etc. you hang up and tell no one. Well, except ST, of course.
How did the ex know what
How did the ex know what drugs he was prescribd? That just seems a little weird to me.
Revenge is a dish best served cold. Her helping is coming.
her attorney set a subpeona
her attorney set a subpeona to the hospital and pulled his file. her overdose theory is based on a certain drug given at the ER but that drug is given to help with breathing and bring a person back to life so to speak. she has violated so much of his privacy just to be mean/vindictive/cold and to take him out.
I would look into HIPPA laws
I would look into HIPPA laws if I were you. But in the meantime make it VERY clear how inconsistent she is and how the information is being used for vindictive reasons.
If my Dhs ex pulled that crap with me I would be so in her face she would taste my spit.
All that is going to look
All that is going to look really nice in court. She is plain evil!
Hi, I don't have advice I
Hi, I don't have advice I just wanted to say that I am glad your DH is doing better. That is scary.