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I am so tired of it all!!!

mommy_of_4's picture

Why is it anytime DH and I have to have a discussion about SD13 he can't just discuss the topic at hand? Instead he throws all the shit I've done in my face. GRRRRR. I am so tired of it. Oh how I wish I could be as perfect him.
And if i sit back and just let him deal with it all, he will just find other reasons to bash me. I AM SO TIRED OF THIS!!

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Auteur's picture

I have come to the conclusion that most guilty biodads are actually emotionally unstable. Vickmeister sent me this link on how to communicate with nut jobs such as guilty daddies. I tried it last night and it seemed to help. I'm going to practice it again tonight because of some unknown "offense" that either myself or Awesomeson has committed against Godsgift.

http://www.bpdfamily.com/

You might want to give it a try because normal reason and logic doesn't work with these people.

mommy_of_4's picture

Oh my...well um thats what I have. I was diagnosed about 4 years ago. And he has made my mental illness so much worse. maybe he's right and I don't deserve to be in a relationship Sad

Auteur's picture

Not to worry; I took the "test" online and I tend toward the paranoid side. . .umm I mean WHO WOULDN'T AFTER GOING THROUGH WHAT WE'VE BEEN THROUGH IN LIFE???!!!