So it's been about 4 days since FDH and I sat down with FMIL and talked to her about boundaries and we haven't heard a peep. She had excuse after excuse about her behavior and kept mentioning that I, Msg1986 was brought up different than her and her son-my fdh and she just cares about us... whatever, I was a little offended, like we're okay you're not.. but again whatev... I feel like she got the point but I feel like we'll have issues again in the future but I feel good that I was able to let her know she isnt to come into my house and disrespect me or my home again. She also refused to stop talking to BM and said that because she's the BM of Fss that she'll do whatever she can to help BM including help her financially... it is a little irritating because FDH is a great dad and I feel like FMIL should have some loyalty to her son but oh well... BM is just as manipulative as FMIL so i suppose they can manipulate the sh*t out of eachother.

I'm have a feeling that she's festering right now and that's why we haven't heard anything... I feel so stupid too because I feel a little sick like fdh's family (fmil, fsfil, fsil, fbil) are going to turn against me now because of this. I think before, fmil & the judgement squad, as we like to call them because they are bible thumping holier than though type of folks, thought this was all fdh just being an ass but now that she knows that we're united in this I have a feeling they are going to spin this into ME being a b*tch.

I shouldn't even care what anyone thinks... Why the hell am I stressing out over this?? Why can't FDH have a normal family, where boundaries don't even need to be laid out because they should enough common sense to have respect....

Just when we got boundaries under control with BM his mom and sister start acting like lunatics... I love my FDH SO much sometimes I feel like I just want out because I hate dealing with this.