So i have a funny story for you ladies... As I've mentioned on here before, my MIL is also a Bm, a horrible one at that. I'd like to write that after years of being a Bm that she is better now but nope she is still bitter that her marriage to FIL ended and is still hates SMIL for no reason. Well, MIL had 3 kids (including my DH) w/ FIL and through the years after MUCH PAS'ing, Dh is really the only one who has a close relationship with his dad, SM and his half little sisters. Dh's sister is very standoffish with her stepmom and doesn't considering the girls FIL had w/ SMIL her sisters. Dh's brother pretty much has the same shit attitude. Anyway, MIL is always talking shit to and about Dh because he's close to his dad. She loves to go on and on about how FIL was a terrible father for leaving them and how none of it (their failed marriage) her fault and Dh should disown him. It's pretty disgusting.

Anywho, BIL is getting married soon and MIL has the audacity to call Dh and tells him to call FIL to ask him to pay for BIL's rehearsal dinner because BIL doesn't want to ask him, probably because he shits all over his dad & SM and doesn't acknowledge his sisters and doesn't have the nerve. Some Bm's never change though. I mean, MIL is constantly dogging Dh for being close with his dad and stepmom but then is quick to try to benefit from their relationship to ask FIL for money. Ridiculous right??? Thankfully Dh pretty laughed at his mom and told her that if BIL wants a handout from FIL that he needs to grow some balls and call him himself. WTF is wrong with people??? lol