We are not allowed to talk to the skids unless we email the day before, fine, but we get reamed for not answering her calls this weekend. Ha Ha! Don't like playing by your own rules, huh? FH picks up the kids and you would not believe the crap they are telling us (no prompting - they were upset!) We drove last Monday to SS STB6's school (2.5 hours away) to greet him for his first day at Kindergarten. FH, DD 3 months, and Mumzy79 left at 5 am to be there on time bearing a new stuffed animal and card for SS. He was so excited to see us. We met his teacher etc, however she left while FH was still talking to SS's teacher so we couldn't say bye to him. Not really a surprise, BM loves cashing the $900/month, but cannot stand to let go of control. Anyway, we go to the admin office and guess who isn't on SS's registration or emergency card? Good thing I had a copy of the court order with us (they have shared custody and joint legal). She is constantly breaking the court order. We currently have 2 pending contempt charges for denial of visitation. Anyway, we pick up skids and SS STB6 says he doesn't have his stuffed animal anymore, "it was taken away." How can the low-life BM take away his present from his father no matter what her contempt for us is? I do not understand it. Furthermore, SS asks why we are trying to put his Mom in jail? Way to go BM, try and turn the kids against us, sorry you are so insecure you can't stand that they love us!!! UGH!!! She has put so much crap in their heads it is ridiculous. PAS - can't prove it, can't stop BM, but in the end hopefully the truth will prevail. At the last visitation, right before school started, we got SS a backpack filled with goodies for school (scissors, crayons, glue sticks, etc) 4 new outfits, and 2 new pairs of shoe. She calls and says she already got his school supplies. FH said, I am sure you did, but I wanted to get him something because I am so proud of him. She refuses the supplies, she has too much at her house, but she says she can use the clothes (no new school clothes for Kindergarten). FH says you don't want to let him keep my present, then return the clothes. Got the backpack back, guess what...NO CLOTHES!!! Ha Ha. She is such a low life. Hurt the kids in spite of her uber-ego. Whatever, who do you think the skids think is an idiot FH or BM? WHy can't she see, she isn't hurting us, she is hurting her son. BTW, I got all teary-eyed seeing him so handsome. I took lotsa pics. I told FH that I would send her copies of the pics so that she could have pics of her son on his first day of school. She had the nerve to call FH and demand we give her all pics because we couldn't have pics of her other kids (she had 5 by age 23, only 2 are FH's THANK GOD!!!). FH said we were going to be nice and send them to you, but I guess we won't now! She didn't have much to say. Who the hell is she kidding? Sorry for the long vent, but she is really UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!!!