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Ex-wife keeps sending DH pics of her in her undies

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Submitted by newmom01 on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 1:21pm

So i went online paid 2.00 to get her hubbys info and I got his phone number called him and told him that a lot of our marraige problems stem from his wife and her phone calls (suppose to only be about kids) Blum 3 and her naked pics she sends to my DH ...I told her DH look....my DH and i are working on our marraige but your wife keeps sending texts and pics to my DH can you talk to her!!! I sent him an e-mail of his wife posing in the bathroom mirror in her undies for my husband! He said her would take care of it. I talked to my DH about her and her behavior since we have gotten together....he claims he cant control her ....yet when she sends these pics to his phone he sends them to his e-mail to save!! Because he got busted in the past cause I find this crap on his phone...What do yal think? did I do the right thing

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 1:33pm

I say you absolutely did the right thing. Your DH clearly wasn't going to make an effort to make it stop. It isn't like you give him the opportunity to handle it discreetly. The fact that he sends them to his email indicates that he is a big part of the issue as well, though.

I think there is more to your marital problems than the exW. If your DH is welcoming stuff like that from her & not only not stopping it, he isn't not only not deleting it, but is actually taking steps to keep the pics...it doesn't sound like he's working very hard on your marriage. :?

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Submitted by briarmommy on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 1:39pm

Its wrong that she is doing that, but I would be more concerned that your husband is going out of his way to keep them. Tell him that you know he has them and see how he responds. I would deal with that the exwife thats nothing compared to him.

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 1:54pm

First of all if I found my DH was harboring pics of ANY women...but in particular his EX he would be out of my bed, out of my house, just plain OUT period. If he wants to look at her naked then what else does he want to do with her naked. Are you going to sit around and wait for that to happen? Now that you have informed her DH they are going to fight. She is going to run to your DH crying and looking for sympathy because of what YOU did. He is going to console her and tell her he knows, he understands, you are a bitch. This situation cannot get better.

To be 100% honest I would leave my DH on MIL's doorstep and I would go to BM house and beat her ass thorougly. Once I got out of jail I would apologize to SKIDS for hurting them, say my goodbyes to them, and move on with my life and never ever look back.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 2:00pm

First of all if I found my DH was harboring pics of ANY women...but in particular his EX he would be out of my bed, out of my house, just plain OUT period.
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Gotta agree with this. How crazy that ANYONE would put up with this.

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 2:08pm

You also might consider a mass-mailing of the photos to her neighbors, her friends, her family, church congregation, etc. Bet she won't send anymore. Wink

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 2:24pm

Heehee! I really think I'd have to at least send a few...just to let them know that YES...THEY ARE OUT THERE!

Our BM posts her undies pics all over FB on her own with no shame. I do still have the 2nd sex tape I could make copies of if she irks me to that point. I'd have to blur DH's face, though. ROFL! Wink

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 3:05pm

Seriously LOL-ing!

Her thing was/is angels, cherubs, carousel horses, & unicorns. The idea is beautiful & should I ever have to resort to the video, you can bet your sweet bottom DH will have the fattest little cherub face!

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Submitted by Unfreakingreal on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 2:24pm

I'd have that man out of my life so fast his head would spin. Good for you for ratting her out with her husband. You should have emailed them to him and CC'ed the EX!

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 2:49pm

After I found out my ExH was cheating and I booted his ass out of my house, I found a picture of his skanky whore that was hidden in his closet. I wrote "whore" across it and put it in with his crap that I threw in the spare bedroom for him to retrieve. It made me feel good, but when I told a friend of mine, she told me that I should have taken the picture and made "wanted" posters up with it and put them all over town... "Wanted, town whore! Ladies, watch out, she'll sleep with your man, with any man" I so wished I would have done that but oh well. I can always share the idea with others!

Not trying to make light of your situation.. I totally agree with others, this is crap and my DH would be out on his ass in a split second if I ever found a panty picture of anyone and if it was BM, he'd better be picking out his casket.

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Mon, 05/09/2011 - 3:55pm

Your husband SAVES the pictures she sends to him?!!! WTF?!!! Why would you let him get away with that? If he does that with his ex wife don't you think he is capable of having pictures of other random women as well?? WOW!