This is a big deal to me but apparently I am the minority. Both BF and I smoke. We do not smoke in the house only outside. When I first moved in we would walk out side to smoke and SD was on our heels. I always walked away from her. I would never smoke in front of a child, I figure if I am going to harm my lungs my decision. Well BF never put any boundaries about it she was climbing all over him as he smoked. I made a point to tell him that wasn't good she has asthma and second hand smoke is the last thing she needs.

Well he was just beside himself at having to tell her that she has to stay indoors when we smoke. She was going to be upset OMG the horror of it all!!! I said you would rather endanger her health than upset her?? His response well her mother smokes in front of her all the time :jawdrop: Really??? So instead of PARENTING your child you just have a lame excuse!!! He saw the light and laid down the law with her. She pitched a fit but went along with it. Now it has been about a year or so and all of a sudden here she goes following us out the door again! Seriously and he says nothing I shot him a dirty look and said Rules??? He ignored me I wanted to smack him, so I said if you want to smoke in front of her so she doesn't get her feelings hurt about having to stay inside for a whole 3-5 mins go right ahead. But you both stay away from me!!!

How can he be so dumb :?