Just got a phone call from SIL. SD21 is living with her and SO's brother right now. SD21 had a fight with her BM and moved in with her in-laws. Then she had a fight with the in-laws and moved in with SD23 then had a fight with her. I am sensing a pattern here :O So now she is living with SIL and BIL. Big surprise NOT!!!

I knew something was up when SO told me SD21 was texting him all weekend wanting to come and "visit" she hasn't made any attempt to talk to SO prior to that. He did take her a Christmas card when he dropped of SD12 she was at the BM's at that time. They have some issues to work out and he is done trying with her. All she does is lie and I for one am done with it. So far SO has been strong and consistent with her and she doesn't like it. She is used to crying poor me and SO goes running to her defense. So now that she has burned bridges at so many places I know she is looking for her next victim.

SO and I decided when she moved back that no way in hell would she live with us. She is not trustworthy and has no job and she is 5mos pregnant. She is a liar and if she did move in with us she and BM would suddenly make up and she would have her loser BM at our house while we were at work and then lie about it. I hope SO can stay strong. I know it is hard for him because she has the "victim" role down pat. But even he said how can everyone else be wrong and her be right all the time. So now I am just waiting for the phone call to say she needs a place to stay.