This last visitation has been worse than most of the others, and I fear things are only going downhill with her. Lately, every time BF calls to talk to his son he's told "Don't call here again or I'm calling the police". We got a letter the other day from her lawyer stating that BF supposedly called her 40 to 50 times over the course of the last visitation and it was considered harrassment. It went on to say that BM and her attorney are trying to keep BF out of legal trouble. It also said that BF was encouraging his son to tell BM lies and threatened to beat him if he didn't. In the end, it said that BM has no problem with ME and none of this has anything to do with ME, and that she'll never have a problem with ME as long as I don't cause any harm to her son.

What a load of bull! Not a single sentence in that letter was true! This is so frustrating. What should we do? I think I will go to the phone company and request a copy of our phone records from the 8-hour period that she's claiming he called her 50 times and bring it to his lawyer. That's one phone call every 9.6 minutes! There wasn't a single phone call from our phone to hers in that period. I feel like his lawyer needs to know this and have proof for it. As for the rest of the letter, it's basically our word against hers, but maybe if we send good solid proof that she's lying about one thing they'll be less likely to believe her about the others. I would love it if we could get BF's laywer to write a letter in response to the one she sent basically saying that we're trying to give BM the benefit of the doubt but it's hard to when she consistently lies about things that are so obviously not true. The only reason she called her lawyer to start this bull#$*@ is because she found out that SS wasn't being honest with her about visitations and she's blaming and taking it out on us. Should we do something or just let her throw her hissy fits and ignore her?