Well, you were all right...biomom turned psycho again.
Remember when I said that biomom had spoken to a mutual friend and decided that she was going to make an effort to work with me and be nice? Well, everything was fine for a week or so, but for the past few days it's back to being just like it was before. I should have known. Really, I kind of did...I've come to realize that there may be small breaks in her irrational and crazy behavior in which she can bring herself to be civil and cooperative...but they don't last for long and are always followed by even more ridiculous and immature behavior.
She thinks that its her responsibility to "save me" from my bf. As if all the problems that he had when he was with her will somehow resurface when he's with me. I understand that there are certain traits that people have that never change...but a lot of the "problems" that she had with him were just him trying to exercise his independence and rebelling against her for being a complete control freak! I can't help it that my bf doesn't love you anymore. Of COURSE you guys had problems in your marriage. Duh! You're divorced! Your past marriage problems are not my business or my fault!
She keeps alluding to all this legal trouble that he's supposedly in that she doesn't think I'd want to be a part of, and has tried to convince me that he has STD's. Then she turns around and says that she's happy with her life and freedom now without him and would never take him back. Whatever!! Why does she spend so much of her time trying to bring me down or chase me off if she's happy with her life? Obviously she has a pretty screwed up perspective of happiness!
Grrr I'm just so frustrated right now because she's been emailing me all day with this stupid immature crap and I was naive enough to believe that we were past all this. I can just go back to ignoring her from now on unless she contacts me with some sort of emergency I guess. I'm just so sick of her yo-yo behavior. I've been dealing with it for years now, you'd think I'd be pretty much a master at it now but I'm not. I can deal with rational and SANE people but she is neither of the above and makes absolutely no sense to me!
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What is she emailing you? I
What is she emailing you? I wouldn't believe a word she says. If you want her to stop emailing you then just tell her to stop. It's a bit risky when she is nice one day and nasty the other. You know that she is not truthful to you. She probably wants to be your friend and emails you all the time because she wants to hear the stuff that goes on in your life and your husband's. Don't say anything to her and yes ignore her!
-happy mom
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She emails me a little bit of everything. Sometimes it's just asking about my day or wishing me a good weekend, others its griping at me for being around her son or ex husband, others its telling me how much of a child I am and that I need to grow up. There are much more things that she says, this is of course just a summary.
Over the years I've told her multiple times to stop but she never heeds my requests. I don't believe a word she says but she continues to try regardless. I get so frustrated because I work really hard at being civil and understanding with her and all she does is fuss and lie and try to make things difficult. I think this past time is the final straw that will make me ignore her completely unless she contacts me with an emergency.
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
She sounds very random...
It sounds to me like she is not happy.. if she was she would leave you alone and quit trying to come between your relationship.
I mean one minute she wants to see how you are, the next she is basically telling you your immature, the next is stay away form my ex and my kid and then she is back to being nice.. Sounds like she is the one that needs to listen to her own emails.. and give up.. You are not going anywhere..
Block her emails.. Put her in the junk email category.. And then tell her that her you will not receive her emails anymore and that if there is an emergency with the child(ren) that she will need to actually call.
You are on the right track..
Keep your head held high..