BM said that she had dropped her charges against BF and is begging us to do the same, claiming it's what's "best for SS" blah blah blah. Well, yesterday BF had his lawyer call and check on things. Imagine our suprise to find out that she hadn't actually dropped her charges. This is just classic BM. Just trying to manipulate us a lie to us and expect us to just believe her. Did she think we were just going to blindly believe her and not even check?

I keep telling BM that the best thing we could do is get SS into counseling so that we can find out how he really feels and he can talk to someone who is unbiased and he won't have to worry about telling them what they want to hear or what won't hurt their feelings. For the past several weeks she has said that SS is seeing a counselor but won't tell me who it is. Then she says that that's confidential information and if BF wants to know who SS is seeing then he needs to call her and ask. Well since she hasn't mentioned to him that SS is seeing a counselor, it's HER responsibility to give him that information. And since they have joint legal custody it's against the parenting plan for her to have enrolled him in counseling without his consent anyway. AND it's her responsibility to give him the contact information of the counselor and the results, receipts, etc. He could sue her for contempt of court yet again if she does not share this information, not to mention for placing him in counseling without his consent in the first place. But since she's not done any of this and continues to refuse to give out this information, I'm assuming that this counselor is just another made-up person that she's fabricated to support her story. She claims that it is an unbiased party who just happens to be getting the exact same information out of SS that she is - he hates me, he doesn't want to be around his father, he wishes we'd leave him alone, blah blah blah. It's convenient that the only people who have ever been on her side are people that she's made up. It's even more convenient that she hasn't responded to me at all since I brought up that she's in contempt for hiding this information from BF and doing these things without his consent.

I'm just so fed up with this woman and all of her lies. I can't believe that she would contact me under the premise of making things better on SS and have the nerve to continue to lie and attempt to manipulate us. It's just so dispicable that after all these years of us dealing with her bulls$%^ she's not only trying to blame everything on us, but continues to lie and manipulate instead of just working with us which would be so much easier and better for everyone! What is wrong with this woman? She seriously needs help!