}:) She was cheated on!! You might remember i mentioned no boundaries sd signed up my son for a fb account (he's too young), and then added herself and my ffil to the friend request (this is how I found out). And THEN I go to MY phone, and she had signed me out, signer HERSELF in. SO pissed as I was I decided to leave her signed in At least can do some snooping because "knowledge is power". Well she had a stalker boy she kissed that was mad she broke up with him-nah seriously I did almost feel protective and messaged him seperately to leave her alone (that would reveal me however).

OH and wait a minute-I can snoop on BM's page aha!! So a few days ago I remember feeling bitter because for 2 mins she seemed to have more then us, getting her way in life, very happy, new home, a pic w/her and her girlfriend of a whole 6 months this time (living w/her too!)-and it all seemed going smooth for her though she has put my guy through hell, AND her child also w/PAS, not caring, being a lousy mom.

So 3 days ago she complains on fb how her parnter was incognito for 4hrs...then last night she confirmed she had been cheated on, that she had never been lied to and cheated to in such a harsh way, was devastated, etc....a ton of comments etc-well at least I know instead of her dropping SD w/bf to spend NY w/her lover she will now spend it with her CHILD-the one she sent away for 9 days during Christmas to enjoy time w/said lover and never once picked her up as promised....

OH-one of her "like a mom to her' comments that she moves TOO soon, that she knows she wants someone but this isn't the way, that she bought that house for her and kid to keep it that way. Said, SD gets close to these people and it's not fair to her for this to keep happening. OMG I was THRILLED!!!! At last someone she 'loves and respects' calls her out for her behavior-She has switched partners about every 3 months...some end up in jail, some they beat eachother up, this one cheated. I HATE to say I"m happy because I"m know being cheated on is horrible...but dang i"m just thrilled the karma train has come back yet AGAIN!!!! I ALMOST feel sorry for her you all, seriously!!! How could I for ONE minute had 'bm envy'.She may get her way a lot but she sure hasn't been able to recover her personal life since the divorce w/bf years ago...and he's gone on to be in a loving steady relationship for years with me (she hates us for it too!!!)

SO this could go two ways-she'll realized how screwed up she is and spend more time w/her kid being a MOM-OR she'll start getting rid of her more so she can mourn and go out to meet NEW partners, and then be emotionally absent again as she goes through the 'getting to know you honeymoon' stage. TO be honest all this makes me terrified because i guarantee there will be repercussions with SD and her behavior. Everytime she sees mom hurting WE pay the price-everytime mom is unhappy sd is unhappy-NOT to mention the revolving door of women in out of the kids life-YET another one!!!

On the flip side, bf and i had some long talks since my last post about us....and we are on track again. He is fully aware of my needs and what he has to do, and same for me. He is 'dating me all over again'-he says it gets to be all about responsibilities and we act like a married couple (we do)...and we BOTH agreed we've lost all romance, spark and passion and are wondering why we are together-whereas we never questioned it before. He's done this before when things get 'stale'---he goes on full campaign to 'woo me and court me' (and it works lol)-I KNOW eventually you cant always keep it up 24/7 life gets in the way, but it's great when we BOTH try to get back to feeling happy about eachother, and making the effort to love on eachother, and bring back intimacy and passion. We had lost all PASSION for eachother, and he told me that when we marry one day, he wants me to know he will still date me all over again while married if things get stale or I am unhappy. I love him for recognizing that taking eachother for granted is dangerous-thats when breakups happen, cheating happens, growing apart. I do so love this man!!