Geesh...always something. This weekend SD came out asking to use my oldest sons mp3...I said you have to ask him,...she pouted and said he woudl say no..I repeated-I think he'll be ok with it but it IS his and you have to ask him and accept his answer. Earlier you took (youngest son) bike w/out permission and when we came back you were riding it outside and my son was mad. That is not acceptable-you would have a fit if he did it to you so if you want to use something that's personal you ask first-and then live w/the answer (mind you she has always refused to share any of her things with them-everytime).

So she did-and my son said yes-she used her dads headphones with it.

This week bf says that he asked my son for his mp3 assuming his headsets were with it...and son said he couldn't find it-NOW..my son loses EVERYTHING-ALL the time but bf had suspicions that she had taken it w/out asking.

SO-as standard bs that goes on-bf is with me cooking, a call from his parents house...it was his D-there for a visit..that already enfuriates him because bm always does last minute stuff. Anyways-he asked her and she said "Yes, I did, but didn't mean to-was an accident". That is a LIE!!! She had to put it in her bag and take it home, He was LIVID. He told her to leave it at her grandparents house then and he would pick it up.

She then asks him if he can see her Friday-but he would have to pick her up(not his wknd)-because mom is working late (yeah-daily for months now -anyways). He says he will see-she says well I can give you the mp3 then-he repeats NO...leave it there today (my son will want to take it this wknd to his dads).

So after he hangs up mad as hell-he wonders out loud if she will leave the mp3 or will hold it as "incentive" to have him pick her up Friday-in which case I will be furious! Good gracious she is so entitled!! I just texted him to find out.

He better have it back to me before I take my kids to be w/their dad!!

And now guess what-she's lost the priviledge or borrowing personal things that aren't hers.