Why can't i let go and get on with my life?
My story: www.steptalk.org/node/165681
I don't know why i am sticking around. I want to salvage the marriage, but it will never work out because even this way he still puts her first. I am sick of all the facebook post of how i love my daughter sayings. He says he has no room in his life for a woman, only his daughter and grandchildren. We had a fight last night because he went all day without so much as a phone call. Married people aren't supposed to act like this. His only response was he was sorry he ruined my life. I feel as if I am his girlfriend that only comes over on date nights which only consist of sitting outside drinking. That is all he wants to do anymore. I wish someone could tell me how to let go. To get on with my life. It isn't getting any easier.
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My late DH was much like him
My late DH was much like him too. And sadly to say, my son is that way. He is very mean and vindictive when pissed off.
After going thru that type of r'ship for 20 years, I was able to move on b/c he did pass and a weight was lifted from me.
You need what he is feeding you. Even though you want a happy, loving r'ship, you also crave the negativity. Maybe he is feeding what you feel about yourself and that is why you can't move on. You said you were raped and that you were in another abusive r'ship correct? So you have had a lot of negativity in your life.
You need to develop self esteem, and love for yourself. Therapy is one way to help you heal, throwing yourself into an activity that you love to do that makes you feel good inside.
Until you can realize you are a strong, amazing person you won't be able to walk away from what you know is a bad r'ship.
Honey - you are a booty call
Honey - you are a booty call - he has a mini wife & you on the side. move on and build up your self-respect