I get home and DH has prepped all the flower beds and mowed the lawn. He has NEvER touched the flower beds so I figure he is trying to get on my good side. I just can't even look at him. He apologized, but I don't think he knows what he is apologizing for! I told him the exact reasons why I am upset with him. He is pushing me to allow MSD to come to our house. He agreed that there has been no change in SD's behavior. So he backs away from that for a bit, but then brings up the whole FB bashing. He is trying to turn it even more now that he really doesn’t think she did that. I asked why and he said because I talked to SD about it :jawdrop: OMG I wanted to hurt him at that moment. Can he really think this woman can be honest? SD would tell lies just to tell them and now he thinks she is telling the truth? If DH would have made her pull the post up then maybe he would know. I told him he didn't ask to see it because he knew it was probably about me and then he would have to be the "bad guy" and yell at her for it. I have some majior anger over this! Oh there have been posts in the past about me, but I never really paid much attention to them. I guess I didn't understand how my DH should have handled it until the day when SD called her dad an asshole to me in a text and I came unglued on her. The more I told her to cut it out the more she came back with worse things to say about her dad. I didn't have to think about it or mull it over I just reacted. Why can't he do the same for me? :O I am so disgusted with him and I am having a very hard time letting go of this. Life is too short to hold grudges. Any advice on how to move on from this? I know it sounds like I am ranting about a FB post but that is not the case.