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I think I'll start using dh's CO for toilet paper since it's that worthless...

princessmofo's picture

Two years ago twat waffle took dh to court to modify custody. She lost. They did however, hammer out a new CO and PP. It contained some minor changes. The money it cost to do this was not minor however. Thousands of dollars that I helped bankroll.

The attorney and I both made it abundantly clear to dh that the best way to safeguard himself from devil cunts tantrums and demands was to abide by the CO, at all costs. As we all know here, the best way to cut a bpd bm off at the knees, is to follow the CO to the T. No deviations, no modifications, no exceptions.

Well lo and behold, last week ss is on Spring break and dh informs me he is going out of town with cuntcakes and the hostage (aka her new husband). I ask dh where the email is stating this trip, the dates, and where ss will be staying. His reply, "She told me in person. No email." :jawdrop: (Sidenote: They work together and he always claims "They don't communicate in person at work." Could've fooled me.)

Really, fucktard?! She just told you. Well that sounds peachy. Why didn't you hold that demanding harpy's feet to the fire and make her put it in writing? That's what your CO states. That they both MUST put these kind of things in writing X amount of days before said trip.

Why? Oh I'll tell you why. Because you are a sackless dickless wonder dh. Pay no nevermind to the unending Hell this female turd has put us through for over five years. Nevermind that she will damn sure make YOU put shit in writing, otherwise pitch her screeching banshee fit, that you aren't following the CO and land you back in court.

I'm not sure if it's sheer laziness on dh's part or stupidity at this point. I guess he seems to be lulling himself into a comfort zone with WonderWitch again, since she's been quiet lately. But how could you trust someone, who by all accounts has 1) tried to ruin your relationship with your child 2) tried to ruin your relationship with your spouse and 3) tried to ruin you financially? And that's just the tip of the iceberg.

I have an inkling there may be more to this story between twat waffle and dh and I'm not privy to it. That being said though, I am just going to continue to chant the words: not my monkey, not my circus over and over again in my head. I will not be coming to his rescue this time when the bottom drops out and the inbred swamp cunt has him in a vice-like death grip due to his own stupidity. I guess it's just natural selection. You aren't strong enough to evolve, dh so you die off...

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Willow2010's picture

Your DH freaks me out. How can anyone work with an ex. A high conflict ex at that.

My DH would shovel poo before he would let that happen. Unless it is the only job out there and it pays 10 times what it should. lol

princessmofo's picture

Willow, this has been an ongoing internal struggle for me as well. I have tried and tried to encourage dh to get a job elsewhere. Granted, he is in a specialized field and has no college, but he has years of experience. I even had a friend of mine line him up for a job with the school district, one with great benefits and better pay. He wouldn't even entertain the idea.

I can't fathom what the appeal of his current job is. He waited six years for his last pay raise. One that twat waffle immediately pounced on as she is the office manager and sees everything.

After this last gem, I have one foot out the door. I can't continue to be a supporting actor in my own story. This is my life, I should be the lead character in my own story. Not some hack two-bit player in the story of Dh and Cuntcakes.

princessmofo's picture

Thanks. I think it's safe to speculate at this point that he and cuntcakes are deliberately still enmeshed with each other by choice and not circumstance. So time for me to move on...

Monchichi's picture

I will add our court order to the toilet pile. It's more use that way than what it's currently for.

princessmofo's picture

Maybe we can find a use for them with the help of Pintrest. We could use them for wallpaper, or maybe we could learn origami. I've always enjoyed paper mache.

Willow2010's picture

a friend of mine line him up for a job with the school district, one with great benefits and better pay. He wouldn't even entertain the idea.
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I have followed your life along for a while now. Your story is always one that stuck in my mind. Im sorry. It sucks. And this is crazy. Honestly...do you think they are having an affair?

princessmofo's picture

I don't know anymore, Willow. I don't think he'd have the time to sneak around with her and she's remarried. But it's clear that they are not going to cut the ropes and let go of each other, even after all this time. I think they are still emotionally invested. I however, am not any longer. Dh has destroyed any hope of a future with me. Right now, I just plan to tread water and start moving finances around so as to plan for a future, without dh. Our attorney even called him "ball-less".